Hellen Keller once said, ~When one door of happiness closes another opens; but often we look so long at the close door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.~ If you think about it, when it comes of the heart pertaining to love/true love you can oftentimes feel like your standing outside behind a velvet rope in front of a door of a very exclusive club. For it can most definitely be a curiously thought provoking and not to mention intriguing situation indeed to gain access then step into/through the door of that aforementioned exclusive club, especially for individuals who've been living the single life for quite some time such as myself. Essentially, when you in a way know the quintessential secret password or show the one of a kind card you are able to at least get your foot or in this particular care heart in the door, so to speak.
As I said before, you have to in a way know the quintessential secret password or show a one of a kind exclusive card in order to at least get your foot or in this particular case heart in the door. Of course, its not necessarily knowing a quintessential secret password or having a one of kind exclusive card per say as it's the genuine qualities and aspects of one's own personality, as well as character traits that have the potential of establishing a strong, worthwhile relationship. Trust, faith, hope, honesty, respect, sincerity, intimacy, understanding, commitment, communication, etc. help in getting you through the so called door of a guy/girl's heart, in a manner of speaking; but it doesn't actually provide you full access to special amenities/areas/rooms located somewhere within if that makes any sense to you whatsoever.
Without a doubt, there is a metaphorical velvet rope representing a mixture of stress, anger, disappointment, anxiety, embarrassment, frustration, frustration, anger, and yearning that you can certainly find yourself "standing behind" in order to get in. Thinking about it further, depending on how long one has been in all intents and purposes been standing behind said metaphorical velvet rope has the propensity to leave any individual considerably restless in their own thoughts, feelings, and emotions. It's a type of restlessness where there is a struggle to stay mentally and emotionally sane. Of course, when going through that sense of mental and emotional along with the possibility of physical restlessness it can/could very well be the cause of one's own painful self sabotage regarding "knocking on the door" of that special someone's heart.
Let me ask this question to those standing behind their own inner velvet rope pertaining to gaining access to the exclusive club otherwise known as true happiness: how long have you been waiting to be let through and finally knock on the door that's seemingly been far out of your reach? I think it's safe to say we've all experienced or are experiencing seeing others behind us always always getting past the rope and having the door opened for them to go inside while we continue to wait/stand in line after not being allowed to go any further. For the most part, it truly tests anyone's patience knowing full well there's an inclination to step out of line and give up. However, you hopefully don't, therefore you continue to look forward to someday being waved in/passed the velvet rope, whereby standing at the precipice of where each one of us have been wanting for so long to reach.
Someone said, ~The doors will be open to those who are bold enough to knock.~ In retrospect, there's an absolute envious and at times jealous feeling to those who are lucky enough to be inside the seemingly exclusive club and enjoying their time with their forever best friend. Why? What it primarily comes down to is feeling and/or thinking we're totally missing out on what's going on inside as if there's a party of sorts happening thus enjoying all the perks of being in a significant relationship. Sadly, it's an unfortunate mindset to have and to remedy that is to just focus on living the single life until it leads and inevitably provides you an opportune opening. In the end, opportunity knocks for those standing at their aforementioned velvet rope who have the determination to boldly step over to then ultimately walk up to the door that's been so close and yet so far within reach.
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