Mike Campbell-Fatoki once said, ~We are the author of our destinies. No one can see the vision any clearer, believes in, and work harder to make it a reality more than the visionary.~ Without a doubt, the past 10 years has seemingly flown by with considerable changes along the way. Now that a new decade is in a few days will there be a resolved focus to repeat mistakes of the past in order to do much better for what we all envisioned for ourselves in the next 10 years for 2020? For it's truly a thought provoking and certainly a highly anticipated question indeed for the new year rolling around, especially now that we've reached the twenties. However, will what each of us have set our sights on for the coming years become reality as it pertains to the following: family/friends, career, and matters of the heart.
Let me ask this question regarding the toxic, strained relationship of family/friends. Will you be able to clearly see the relationship established between a particular person or people, continuing knowing that whenever you're around each other things never turn out well? True, there's a sense of loyalty with the ties that bind involving an individual going back years but at the same time you're setting your sights on a far better future in hopes he/she has that same insight too. Of course, cutting any familial ties with a isn't at all common these days as a range of issues from politics to religion and everything in between can completely sever an already unstable relationship. Essentially, one can turn a blind eye ignoring what's always been the quintessential writing on the wall or finally see what needs to be done.
If you think about it, being able to have the full scope of where you see yourself in one's own career is most definitely an achievable goal any person sets for himself/herself. Determination, competitive spirit, passion, attitude and not to mention sheer focus to clearly zero in on where you want to be heading towards instead of finding yourself stuck in a constant stalling pattern so much so you're somehow standing in the same spot going absolutely nowhere. Unfortunately, if there is a difficulty in being motivated in a job you're currently in that's not an enjoyable working environment, helping benefit you personally, mentally, and not to mention financially then it's time for a change. A much needed change in which the smile seen on your face makes for a far better feeling than the look of absolute misery.
For the question can be asked to those living the single life, when it comes to matters of your own heart, who do you envision yourself as it pertains to falling in love? For those who have been lucky enough to see their forever best friend sharing together their insights concerning a strong worthwhile relationship. Unfortunately, true happiness is considerably hazy to a certain number of people like myself who are provided inspiring visuals that maybe one day down the road becomes a reality. What it primarily comes down to is being able to see yourself visualizing living life without any emotional attachments pertaining to love/true all the making memorable moments happen for yourself. Hey, it's when you do that then you'll find yourself pleasantly surprised at whose face you'll see standing in front of you.
In retrospect, 2020 is well within our sights as it gradually rises over the new horizon while 2019 is forever setting behind us, which some individuals are glad to never see again. Thinking about it further, each one of us are for all intents and purposes once again being given a fresh perspective on any opportunities to renew or start. Hey, all it takes is that initial first whether it is mental or physical. What it primarily comes down to is just staying on target as best you can while never letting your vision waiver or be hijacked, in a manner of speaking, by those who selfishly piggy back on the successes you're working so hard for that he/she/they feels rightfully deserving of any sort of recognition. In the end, may we all have a clear vision for 2020 filled with positive images, as well as moments we'd be proud to look back on.
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