Sunday, March 27, 2016
Piece By Piece
Someone once said, ~The one who is meant for you, encourages you to be your best, but still loves and accepts you at your worst.~ If you think about it, when it comes to the single life it's considerably rare these days to meet someone who isn't selfish and would rather do everything in his/her power to show how much you're loved. Vice versa as well. For its a comforting and not to mention heart a warming situation indeed to know not every guy/girl is presumably the same and their intentions are far different pieces to the proverbial relationship puzzle to the point where their positive, hopeful outlook regarding one's best friend for life is considered to be a breath of fresh air. Essentially, a best friend for life who does the following 3 things during the highs, lows, and everything in between of a worthwhile relationship: create, motivate, and inspire. Without a doubt, to have someone in your life who has the ability to create a seemingly positive atmosphere for you to where the smile on your face never fades away is something each one of us strive for. Thinking about it further, being in and/or around their presence is deemed a perfect fit in your mind leaving an instant impression that not only can't be quite explained; but it runs deep so much so it feels absolutely comforting. I think it's safe to say any guy's/girl's perspective will change tremendously after spending time with an individual who somehow has the uncanny ability and innate power, so to speak, in creating a positive outlook, especially when it pertains to connecting all the pieces involving true happiness. So, I ask you ladies and gents have you already met or hope to meet this particular person in question that restores/has restored your hope of a forever best friend? As I said before, a guy/girl who is able to motivate you during the highs, lows, and everything in between of a worthwhile relationship is considered to be something truly special. In a sense, it's like having you're very own version of Tony Robbins of the heart who keeps you motivated in not quitting emotionally/mentally/spiritually when you find yourself either losing faith, giving up, self sabotaging, and/or completely doubting whether love/true love is even worth it to pursue or will it ever even happen at all. True, its a considerably sad state of affairs when bad past relationship experiences motivated you to be less trusting and understand whereby you're consumed with deep seeded anger, as well as bitterness towards a hopeful bright future. Let me tell you something, to have that type of relationship with a guy/girl who keeps you consistently motivated in every sense of the word is a keeper in my book. Let me ask this question to those who are in a potential and/or significant relationship, what is something about your bf/gf/husband/wife that inspires you to be/become a better person? A deeply thought provoking question I know and yet can be easily answered by a number of people who are in a flourishing relationship with a guy/girl who is an absolute inspiration for him/her. The reason I get up in the morning and breathe while expressing a smile on my face. A small descriptive example of how a better half means to someone lucky enough to have all the puzzle pieces of a relationships perfectly fit in an imperfect way. Of course, the same can be said for that person in question too as he/she finds pieces of inspiration in not wanting to fail or be seen as a failure in that certain someone's eyes thus pushing him/her to work harder, which is a totally inspiring endeavor all in itself. In retrospect, the great motivator that is matters of the heart is capable of creating and inspiring those living the single life like myself in fully knowing with 100% surety who each one of us wants to spend a lifetime with. Oftentimes, what makes a bond stronger between two people is being encouraged at your best and at your worst rather than not giving up entirely on one another despite moments of getting on each others nerves because you're so irritated it drives both of you utterly insane. Hey, although it can be discouraging at times its ultimately worth it. In the end, I say to my fellow single peeps be with someone or be that someone who is able to gradually strengthen piece by piece key aspects of a worthwhile relationship such as patience, trust, honesty, respect, understanding, faith, communication, commitment, etc. whereby forging an ever growing hope of fiery inspiration within two individual hearts becoming one.