Saturday, February 07, 2009

Finally

Someone once said, ~Its hard to find someone whom you truly love, much less to find someone who love you as much. When the chance comes don't ever let go.~ Without a doubt, we all want a chance at experiencing true happiness and for a lucky number of people they're fortunate enough to have found that special someone who loves him/her just as much he/she does maybe even more. For its a dream come true wihtin one's own heart to not only find your best friend for life, but also the one who makes you feel absolutely complete in mind, body, and soul. Thinking about it, love begins as a simple friendship and the more time spent getting to know each other on a deep, personal level a bond is established, which is considered the best way for love to flourish.

Let me ask this question to all those in a significant relationship, when you met the person who you knew were going to spend the rest of your life with did he/she knock you off your feet? When I say that I don't just dont mean it in the visual sense as you can most definitely be taken back by what's underneath the physical exterior to the point where you can be blown away, metaphorically and literally, at what you find out. It can be a mind blowing situation indeed to spend time with someone you truly interested in over coffee, a bite to eat, or whatever the case may be and have a real, genuine relaxed conversation that you never want to end as the hours seem like mere minutes instead of the other way around whereby leaving a smile on both your faces.

If you think about it, when you've found true happiness after experiencing times of utter heartbreak in the past you know within your heart that its different this time. The sadness, loneliness, frustration, fear, anger, bitterness, etc. one usually tends to subconciously hold on to are let go of as he/she gradually gives you back the one thing you lose when it concerns the pangs of love...faith. I think it would be safe to say there are people out there who have at some point lost faith in love because of being with a guy/girl who sorely disappointed you in such a way that being in the relationship didn't get any better as it instead became increasingly worse. Hey, for those who are in a relationship and its better than its ever been I have faith it will continue to keep getting better for you as time goes on.

For the question can be asked of you, how long have you been waiting for your dream to come true? As said before, it can be a dream come true as you find not only your best friend for life but also the one who makes you feel absolutely complete in mind, body, and soul. For some, most, or all people have seemingly been waiting a lifetime for someone who is an immensely exceptional, unique person and doesn't have the unfortunate traits, as well as, characteristics exhibited by guys/girls that have disappointed you in the past. What it primarily comes down to is being patient and even though it can be frustrating to wait you know that it will be well worth it as God sends you that person who will forever take your breathe away.

In retrospect, when it comes to matters of heart you want to find a genuine connection with someone that can't be faked whatsoever. A connection that's honestly real in which you can laugh, cry, and confide in with that person about your worries, fears, hopes, and dreams without having to wonder if he/she is actually listening to you. Let me tell you something, to find a best friend who gives you a renewed sense of faith in your heart to where your life can now begin is what we're all searching for. In the end, I hope to someday find my best friend and when I eventually do I can say I've finally found someone who makes me feel complete as I share my life with her, which is a song by Bryan Adams that best reflects this thought.

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