It Just Makes Sense

Maggie Lawson’s Psych character Juliet O’Hara once said, ~I think, maybe, the best things, the richest things aren't supposed to come easily, and that sometimes the moments that make the most sense happen when everything else doesn't.” Without a doubt, when it comes to matters of the heart in regard to a truly worthwhile, loving relationship it doesn’t come easily or end up not making any kind of sense whatsoever. Yet, does it ever really ever make sense knowing the more times you find yourself trying to figure it out it drives you utterly insane. For it can most definitely be an insanely confusing and frustrating situation indeed as one often struggles in holding on to the hope of actually achieving the dream come true of meeting someone who is able to completely balance you in every way, which is considered an absolute rarity these days.

As I previously mentioned before, it can be an insanely confusing and frustrating situation indeed as one often struggles in holding on to the hope of actually achieving the dream come true of meeting someone who is able to completely balance you in every way, which is considered an absolute rarity these days. Unfortunately, what isn’t a rarity are the past relationships in which you’ve been left totally unbalanced. I think it’s safe to say we’ve all struggled mentally and emotionally in keeping hope alive knowing full well one’s faith in it has been on life support or has died because the dating scene isn’t all it’s cracked up to be? Why? What it primarily comes down to is the lack of a genuinely real connection and communication that is unfortunately bypassed all too quickly due in part to people wanting to experience instant gratification.

If you think about it, each one of us is experiencing or has experienced scratching our own heart, so to speak, because of how easily we can complicate things, especially who is standing in front of us. In some ways, it’s like an itch you’re trying to scratch but you’re unable to reach it and the more you attempt to scratch it you’re driven absolutely crazy. Thinking about it further, it’s the crazy, nonsensical moments/situations we put ourselves in by overcomplicating how we’re thinking/feeling in such a neurotically mental and/or emotional way thus tying the inside of our own heart all in knots, in a manner of speaking. Of course, the question remains on whether you’re still feeling that itch you’re wanting so desperately to reach out and scratch or is it now gone because you’ve finally got help in making sense of your own heart?

Let me ask you this question, how many times in your life you felt like you were bountifully rich and wealthy in a strong, worthwhile relationship only to find your heart was not only “robbed”, but left dead broke. Although you feel like you’re dead broke, there is actually something you don’t really want to find yourself in an unfortunate situation in which you’re trying to make sense of or focusing on what you possibly have plenty of like anger, fear, hatred, embarrassment, disgust, shame, dread, anxiety, doubt, worry, sadness, frustration, bitterness, disappointment, utter contempt, etc. However, it’s when you meet someone you're so richly deserving of who doesn’t selfishly push you to move on for their own needs and unselfishly gives back by having the utmost patience in letting you work through and making sense of any difficult issues the world seems to stop spinning within your heart.

In retrospect, when the world within a person's heart goes topsy turvy it’s hard to make heads or tails of what you’re mentally and emotionally going through. Hey, it’s natural to feel that way knowing full well one’s journey for true happiness in regard to a lasting relationship will most definitely experience a tremendous amount of hardships. Ultimately, it's those same hardships you’re facing that you'll actually be appreciative for because they’re considered eye opening lessons to be learned, especially with someone who somehow has the ability in helping navigate your inner heart struggles. In the end, all it ever takes is time, as well as patience until the moment everything within the world of your heart becomes clear as day and if the reason is because of a guy/girl you’ll finally say in your head or out loud the following 4 words: it just makes sense.