Matters of the heart can become a complicated subject to deal with as one searches for that one bright shining star among a sea of countless stars. One can never truly know if the feelings one has for another are love or just mere infatuation. But it's the risks we take with our hearts that determine either a newly found relationship or a broken heart. It's a leap of faith so to speak, when he or she puts themselves out there in order to meet that person who could possibly be "the one. It's like having a vibe or connection with someone that you don't even know and yet you are strangely drawn to that person.
The best example I could give is when seeing that person for the very first time. All one sees is that person and everything around that person is blurry. For it can be a magical moment if one considers it like a fairy tale. For that person may be the key to unlocking one's own heart. Take My Breath Away by Berlin, a song that can compare to meeting that special person for the first time. For the physical attraction is there, but in the end one must find what's most attractive on the inside. Looks or personality, in the end one has to ask themselves which means more to that person.
Both men and women are an enigma, waiting to be solved. For when one thinks he or she has the answers, many more questions pop up. Nobody truly knows all the answers concerning relationships, it is just a matter of taking chances and going with their feelings. For one has to rationalize what one is feeling and find out if those feelings are real. The symptoms are there, for it doesn't take a doctor to figure it out what one has. It's just a matter of facing the truth, a truth that one tends to deny until he or she accepts it. For the next move is a critical one and If compared to, it's like playing a game of chess.
But there comes a time when one gets burned, in a manner of speaking, when a relationship fizzles and it's back to the drawing board so to speak. For everybody has a wall that they put up in order to protect themselves from being hurt. A wall that slowly comes down as one gets to know the other personally, emotionally, and intellectually. For it's a matter of trust when one shares a bit of themselves with another person. It's primarily a gamble one takes when rolling the dice on potential relationships. One can often have regrets when one doesn't take that giant leap of faith. It's just a matter of holding one's breath and diving in so to speak.
The possibilities are endless when matters of the heart are involved. If one doesn't try, the "what if" factor can come into play and it can eat that person inside. An optimistic person might say they will someday find happiness and live happily ever after. A pessimistic person might choose to believe that they will never find happiness and live a life of solitude. In any case, it's like looking at a glass half full or half empty. but it's all in how one looks at the situation. One's own heart is like a compass, it can point you in many directions. In the end, you just have to follow your heart and hopefully it will lead you in the right direction.
The possibilities are endless when matters of the heart are involved. If one doesn't try, the "what if" factor can come into play and it can eat that person inside. An optomistic person might say they will someday find happiness and live happily ever after. A pessimistic person might choose to believe that they will never find happiness and live a life of solitude. In any case, it's like looking at a glass half full or half empty. but it's all in how one looks at the situation. One's own heart is like a compass, it can point you in many directions. In the end, you just has to follow your heart and hopefully it will lead you in the right direction.
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