Get It Right

Someone once said, ~Love will blossom again. Give it a chance. You might do much better, to find a partner who is perfect for you. The fear of heartbreak is not worth losing sleep over. The risk of a breakup will always exist, but if you are strong you will rebound. Every gaping hole can be plugged, if you try.~ Without a doubt, the pangs of continually experiencing the misfortune of utter heartbreak is something that a certain number of people are very familiar with. For it can most definitely be a tough situation indeed causing one to endure a seemingly painful torture mentally, physically, spiritually, and oftentimes emotionally as well. However, a broken heart does eventually heal but the question remains how long will it take before one finally experiences true happiness?

If you think about it, when a guy or girl finds themselves continuously putting back together the broken pieces of their heart there is the tendency to place a tremendous amount of self doubt on himself/herself concerning whether they're worth enough to know what love or true love for that matter actually feels like. It's within that self doubt a number of questions weigh heavily on your mind to the point where it feels like the weight of the world is on not so much your shoulders per say but mainly on your heart. Why isn't all that I do not good enough? When will my heart be able to be genuinely touched by a guy/girl without fear of once again having it break apart into a million pieces? Essentially, it's those questions and countless more that can drive or already has driven a person to the brink of insanity.

As I said before, it can most definitely be a tough situation indeed to experience the pangs of constant heartbreak causing you to endure a seemingly mental, physical, spiritual, and not to mention emotional painful torture. Thinking about it further, its a type of painful torture where you find yourself dwelling on how you had the best of intentions to keep the relationship flowing smoothly and drama free. Unfortunately, it didn't happen or should I say pan out the way one hopefully intended leading to the end result of wanting to fix it somehow after a complete mess was made of things concerning what said and/or done of that matter. Hey, it's unavoidable where the breakup occurs and as much as you want to point the finger at whose fault it was, you just have to remind yourself there is a strength, as well as resiliency within your scarred heart as it keeps on beating.

Let me ask you this question to those who have lost count on the number of times their own heart has been broken, what has helped you get through the difficult time in your life? If you said drinking yourself into a drunken stupor with your gal pals/best buds all night long my answer is no. Granted, it may help but it doesn't solve anything. You see, whenever a breakup happens a person's faith is shaken to the core of their heart causing one to have that initial mindset he/she won't ever fall in love ever again. True, it's quite possibly the first thing that comes to mind in one's emotionally ridden state to where you say life isn't fair but after taking some time for yourself you just have to bow your head, close your eyes and breathe. What it inevitably comes down to is that while your eyes are closed, pray to God for guidance because He ultimately knows and will direct you to who you'll fall in love with.

In retrospect, whenever a person experiences time and time again the pangs of utter heartbreak it's as if he or she is on a sinking ship about to or already has gone under. In some ways, you've been able to keep your head above water, in a manner of speaking, because you consider yourself a survivor. Yet, there comes a point where the voice in the back of your head tells you to stop and just let yourself sink into the deep dark abyss of depression. For the question to be asked, do you listen to it? In any case, when it comes to the concept of starting over again it will be hard to do, which it always is but you'll get through it with wiser because of it. In the end, you'll be fine but there's always that one question that you can't help but ask...will I ever get it right?