Curtis Judalet once said, ~Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it and among all, never...never forget it.~ As said before, love can be considered an obsession for a certain number of people to the point where one can, in some aspect, become the character Gollum from The Lord Of The Rings movie trilogy or otherwise known as Smeagol. Thinking about it, there are a number of women who when it comes to matters of the heart in regards to attaining the ring of holy matrimony, their pursuit can truly become obsessive to where it can mentally, emotionally, and in some instances physically consume them.
Without a doubt, every woman has that innate desire of having the ring in their possession, especially on their ring finger. Essentially, that innate desire can oftentimes grow within their own heart when they are either a witness to or hear news of an engagement concerning an acquaintance, friend, and/or best friend. For it's a tough situation indeed for any single woman to keep the desire of having/wanting the ring in their possession in check to where it doesn't completely destroy them knowing those around her have had or are currently having their desire of absolute true happiness fulfilled, which can be at times difficult to witness causing a mental/emotional/physical battle similar to that of Smeagol against his alter ego Gollum.
If you think about it, it's most definitely hard for any woman to keep a bright smile on their face and not find herself metaphorically descending into darkness within herself. Frustration, anger, fear, doubt, envy, disappointment, jealousy, etc. are considered a plethora of emotions that a woman can experience leaving her to have a mental debate/argument/discussion going on not only in her head, but heart as well. I think it would be safe to say that among those emotions mentioned above, jealousy can most assuredly be the downfall of so wanting to experience the feeling and beauty of what the ring represents that it can cause her to slowly exude an ugly facade both literally, as well as figuratively so much so she changes into someone who is hardly unrecognizable.
Let me ask this question to all you single ladies out there: how many of you still have a small part of your Smeagol-like self that is still intact and not letting your Gollum-like self take complete control? What do I mean? For some women, love can be seen/felt as a strong need that can become overwhelming because without it they're absolutely weak if she can't touch, see, and/or feel it, leading them to settle for relationships that are both unfulfilling and temporary. What it comes down to is just a matter of having the patience and resolve in letting nature run its course concerning matters of the heart instead of fighting/manipulating it to make it happen leaving one to continue to not only mentally, but emotionally torture themselves as well for months or possibly even years.
In retrospect, a woman's pursuit/quest of love/true love in regards to attaining the proverbial one ring can either bring about euphoric contentment leaving her with countless enjoyment within her heart or ends up experiencing the unfortunate downfall of losing it causing constant emotional/mental/physical pain, suffering, and/or heartbreak. In any case, the struggle for a single woman or any woman for that matter to stay strong when it pertains to their bright Smeagol side and not let themselves slip into the dark Gollum side of herself can be quite a tough task to undertake because of bad past relationships but it's doable. In the end, to all you single ladies out there I hope the desire to one day individually attain your precious comes to fruition and may it be unforgettable.
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