With You

Someone once said, ~Sometimes you meet somebody and you know that whatever you did before, it must have been right...nothing could've have been too bad or gone too wrong because it led you to this person.~ If you think about it, when it comes to matters of the heart, you don't necessarily know what you did or how you ever pulled it off but you're in a relationship with someone who love/cares about you. Guys, more often than not, have a tendency to not have a clue as to how they ended up meeting, falling in love with, and inevitably marrying an absolutely beautiful woman. For it befuddles the mind of any guy when he's chosen by a woman who not only one believes is totally out of his league but has no earthly idea as to what she sees in him, which merits a sense of disbelief.

Without a doubt, guys like myself aren't considered the hero when it pertains to "saving" a woman from finding themselves in a perilous situation involving their own heart being broken or shattered into a million pieces. For it's a tough situation indeed to cautiously enter/approach when heartbreak happens knowing the words we say in order to comfort her may not at times be what she wants to hear causing us to possibly be seen as the proverbial bad guy because of how harsh the truth is. Yet, as much as the truth hurts coming from our own mouths, women can't deny the fact that there is actual merit as to the points/facts we're trying to guide you towards, which can be quite difficult to do because half the time we're simply shooting from the hip, so to speak.

As a guy, you can most definitely be surprised when a beautiful woman who is totally out of one's league chooses to spend time/hang with the likes of us who don't normally exude rugged looks and the physically fit physique. It's so surprising mind you that one can do a literal double take as to whether or not you're actually with her causing you to think it may possibly be a dream because if it is you don't ever want to be woken up. Thinking about it, there are plenty of guys who have this mindset that they aren't the dream come true for their significant other knowing full well in their woman's eyes he is. Let me tell you something ladies, if you ever notice your bf/husband look at you and has a completely dumbfounded look on his face he's wondering why you're even with him or why you chose him.

Let me ask you this question to you ladies out there, have you ever been at a crossroads within your own heart when it came to making the decision between a guy who can provide you with everything you ever wanted in life or a guy who can only try to give you all that he can provide knowing its not going to be easy whatsoever? It's a sad state of affairs when women choose a luxurious life only to find themselves absolutely miserable. Essentially, if you chose the guy who isn't a miracle worker, doesn't make your dreams come true right away, or doesn't have the capacity to be the key that opens every door BUT is able to give you something special to hold on to where you're experience absolute true happiness then you made the right decision.

In retrospect, women will find love/true love for that matter in a guy who is oftentimes the least likely to be the man of their dreams. For the most part, it's a guy who at first may not think of himself as someone who is the quintessential knight in shining armor or doesn't feel he can measure up in a physical way to other guys out there. Yet, despite that he makes it up with a sense of morality, genuine honesty, being real instead of being/acting like someone else, and having a big heart, which is rare for women to even find these days. In the end ladies, remember there are guys out there who aren't like the rest and when you meet him he'll say to you I may not be what you expected but I'll always be the man in love with you, which is a song by actor/country singing legend George Strait.