William Wordsworth once said, ~ Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.~ In some aspect, love is like a paper airplane and there is most definitely a process you go through in order to create something you want to see fly to the point where it never falls to the ground. Thinking about it, the paper is a representation of our own heart as each fold made in regards to our own thoughts, feelings, and emotions help in always keeping our hopes of true happiness up in the air. Essentially, there is a sense of fun, joy, and excitement in the creation of a paper airplane as a kid back in the day. For its that same sense of fun, joy, and excitement can also be found in creating something absolutely special involving matters of love/true love.
If you think about it, making a paper airplane isn't as easy as it looks as each fold you make determines how much detail and effort you put into something so worthwhile it lasts a lifetime. In a way, that is what every person wants when it comes to being in a strong, loving relationship as the folds of trust, contentment, hope, faith, communication, respect, honesty, intimacy, security, patience, caring, tenderness, understanding, etc. are considered key steps in creating in all intensive purposes an aerodynamic, smooth flowing bond. For it's a tough situation indeed to try to experience love in which a guy/girl is able to correctly fold areas of his/her/your heart that either have special meaning or are sensitive in nature.
Without a doubt, there are men and women out there whose hearts have become crinkled beyond recognition because of being folded and unfolded so many times over. It's a sad state of affairs for any person to find themselves constantly starting over again, unfolding their heart or flattening it out after it's been crinkled/crumpled up and tossed in the garbage, in a manner of speaking. For some, most, or all people know all-too-well the feeling as if they're heart will not be able to take much more "abuse" before it ends up tearing up or quite possibly has already torn up. Let me tell you something ladies and gents, the human heart can endure the pain of utter heartbreak as it just takes the tape of time and close friends to help mend/heal your heart.
Let me ask you this question to those who made paper airplanes as a kid, did you ever try to add or be fancy with it by doing something such as making two small tears on either side of the back of the wings to create flaps? Here's another question, did it actually help any? Oftentimes, when it comes to love there comes a point where a person will try to add on/be fancy by tearing or should I say enhancing the relationship in order to make it better but ends up making it worse to the point where you're left not only holding part of the relationship in one's hand that's been unfortunately torn off, but also a part one's heart that has been torn off as well. Hey, what it comes down to is knowing that you don't need to make any changes whatsoever to love because it's perfect just the way it is.
In retrospect, each one of us wants to experience a type of love/true love where you don't want to be in a relationship that's haphazardly put together to where you end up with uneven folds leading to one wing larger than the other or whatever the case may be. You see, it takes a step by step process involving folding areas of you heart that are what's most important in a relationship all-the-while keeping the creases of your thoughts, feelings and emotions nicely aligned that when you meet/find someone who is also taking that same step by step process you know he's/she's genuinely real, which is rare to find these days. In the end, I say to those of you who are currently creating/have created together a paper airplane of love in which both of you are breathing new life into each other's heart let it fly.
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