Thursday, April 29, 2010

A Neverending Story

Someone once said, ~True Love. It isn't some insignificant passing thing. It's lasting and it's solid-it doesn't change just because things around you do. It doesn't waver, or disappear just because you're faced with problems. It doesn't fade away just because you get older. Its fixed, its sold, and it doesn't change-its the bright point of someone's life, brings them back on their path in life when they're lost Its endless.~ Without a doubt, we all want to experience our own story of true love that is able to stand the test of time and for a certain number of people they're fortunate enough to be living it. For it is indeed a story like any other of patience, triumph, disappointment, tragedy, moments of frustrations, times of regret, sadness, joy, and everything in between that make finally experiencing true happiness such an absolute epic tale, so to speak.

As said before, we all want to experience our own story of true love that we can essentially pass on from generation to generation that is most definitely worth hearing. I think it would be safe to say we've all heard the stories told by our grandparents/great grandparents who truly knew the meaning of what true love is all about to the point where it can bring tears to your eyes. Its when you sit and listen to them telling their story you see the light shining brightly in both their eyes as they not only continue to look lovingly at each other with the same burning passion they have for one another when they first met, but are able to still see the young/man woman they fell in love with 50, 60, 70 years ago. Let me tell you something, it's those kinds of heartwarming stories of true love you don't get to hear all too often and I'm sad to say are very rarely heard these days.

If you think about it, when it comes to the epic tale that is true love problems will be encountered, which is to be expected in any relationship. Yet, its how those particular problems are handled that determine whether or no the both of you want to continue the story knowing the work the both of you put into the relationship wasn't an easy process by any means whatsoever or end up just another sad story of a broken relationship where it's easier now a days for two people to just walk away/give up/quit than to get to the root of the problem in a relationship. What it primarily comes down to is pride and oftentimes you have to set aside one's foolish, selfish pride and deal with the unresolved issues possibly involving fears/insecurities face to face for the sake of the relationship or the story you've imagined wanting for so long within your heart will never come true.

Let me ask you this question to those in a significant relationship: how many of you truly know that the story your bf/husband/wife/gf are writing together will always be filled with endless amounts of happiness and excitement ? In all honesty, you can't know and that is what makes true love such a tremendous story as the both of you will find ourselves in situations that are so unbelievable you can't help but laugh. A sense of humor is vital because it helps you get past the seriousness of life that tends to throw at you from time to time to where it leaves both of you so stressed out you want to kill each other. Thinking about it though, to look back at past chapters of your lives together with your forever best friend and being able to laugh through it all, the good and most certainly the bad, makes life worth living don't you think?

In retrospect, stories of true love never change but it's the people and circumstances concerning those people that do. It's solid and can completely change a person's life to where it can metaphorically erase chapters of past heartbreak. Granted, each of us have been in the past or currently finding ourselves lost because of the pain leaving us wandering around within our own heart but through faith, hope, the love of friends/family and fervent prayer to God you'll be guided on the right path to true love. Stories of true happiness. always have a beginning, a middle, and an end, which is a formula that has always worked. In the end though, when it comes to your own personal story there will always be a beginning, a middle, but no ending for you because the epic tale of true love you're currently writing together/hope to write someday with someone special is/will be a neverending story. I

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