Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Never Gonna Be Alone(Last Yodaism of 2009)

The late Reggae Singer Bob Marley once said, ~Love would never leave us alone.~ Without a doubt, when it comes to experiencing the pangs of the utter heartbreak in which sadness, frustration, disappointment, etc. reside, a person can oftentimes consider himself/herself alone in dealing with the feelings and emotions that in all intensive purposes weigh him/her down. It's a tough situation indeed for any person struggling by themselves with the inner turmoil felt within their very own heart causing it to become a heavy burden not only on their shoulders, but on their heart as well. Thinking about it, to put it into words can most definitely leave a person with this sense of not being able to have someone who can truly understand the sheer magnitude of what he/she is personally dealing with.

Let me ask you this question to those who are or have been heartbroken, are you feeling/did you feel like the issues you're facing now or have faced in the past caused you to keep your emotions and feelings isolated to the point where it's better to be closed off than to talk openly about it? I think it would be safe to say there are girls, as well as guys out there who portray a happy go lucky, I'm fine with a smile on their face facade, but behind the smile lies a battle from within the very depths of his/her heart/soul. For it's a battle they're enduring alone where he/she is fighting against being stuck in the rut of sorrow, hopelessness, drama, negativity, sick of being sick and tired, etc. which has made people nearly or coming close to giving up.

If you think about it, when it comes to the unfortunate feeling of being alone and unloved because of being hurt in the past a person can find himself/herself clinging on by their fingertips, in a manner of speaking, to the edge of his/her heart. A person can come to a point where he/she can either keep hanging on or just let go and for a certain number of people they know the feeling of trying to pull themselves up but can't because of personal issues of the past trying to pull him/her down. Its a sad state of affairs for those who they once trusted to catch him/her when they couldn't bear the weight of it all to where they end up letting go and instead of falling into the loving arms of their best friend they fall back hitting something considered their worst enemy...reality.

For the question can be asked for those who felt alone within their heart, did you have anyone to be there for you to talk to or have as a shoulder to cry on? We all know someone or are that someone by the look on his/her/your face can tell one has a lot bottled up inside and he/she/you want nothing more than to express whatever is eating at him/her/you to where possibly tears are shed. You see, to have someone who not only is able to somehow understand what you're going through and can provide sage wisdom to hopefully help in one's time of need puts a smile on your face. Women, more so than guys, are greatly appreciative of this and do not have that worry/fear/doubt as to whether or not the guy they're talking to/crying on their shoulder will take advantage of the situation showing he genuinely cares.

In retrospect, there is a positive presence in love and whether it's in person or in spirit it has the ability to never cause you to feel alone and cold. It can hold you tightly with both hands, whereby showing you that no matter how tough relationships are/can be he/she will not let you go or let you fall. To have that positive, warm presence in the form of a guy/girl represents a whole new world where you always look forward to living every single day filled with unknown surprises. Hey, how many people would want that type of true happiness and how many actually have it? In end, when you have the love of possibly someone special in your life along with friends, family, God by your side you're never gonna be alone, which is a song by a group/band who got recently nominated for their newest album Dark Horse in 2010 Nickelback.

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