If Tomorrow Never Comes

Someone once said, ~May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.~ If you think about it, the word tomorrow can most definitely convey a deep meaning, especially when it pertains to matters of the heart. A person can look forward to their tomorrow happening as he/she patiently waits for that special someone to step into his/her life. Yet, you can't help but wonder to the point of asking yourself if tomorrow will be my time to finally experience true happiness that you know will erase all your yesterdays that unfortunately filled your heart with sadness, frustration, disappointment, anger, bitterness, etc., which is considered a dream come true.

Let me ask you this question to those who are single, how many of you are anxiously waiting for your own tomorrow to happen when it comes to love or true love for that matter? I think for those who are living the single life it can be quite difficult to be the type of person who isn't capable of waiting patiently for love and instead makes their own tomorrow happen now. Hey, you have to give props to those who don't sit idly by and let opportunities for a love match to slip through their fingers to where there is a possibility of a heart to heart connection. For a certain number of people their dreams of a better tomorrow for their own heart has come to fruition and they continue to live for today, tomorrow, as well as for the coming future with their significant other.

If you think about it, for those who throw caution to the wind exuding a carpe diem attitude with their heart and ignore any advice of patiently waiting for tomorrow they tend to find themselves unfortunately looking back to painful yesterdays of heartbreak, sadness, disappointment, frustration, betrayal, anger, etc. It's a sad situation indeed for any person to have their hopes of a better tomorrow filled with genuine love dashed as if it never really existed. Why? Essentially, the eagerness to be with “Mr./Ms. Right Now” can undoubtedly make the pain of being hurt hard to take to where there are the seemingly constant past reminders of how one's blind ambition to fall in love can truly have dire consequences that can be both mentally and emotionally haunting.

For the question can be asked to those who have lived through your past yesterdays of heartache, what has been the one thing that has inevitably helped ease the pain as you try to go about not only moving on, but also attaining closure. Thinking about it, other than partying yourself into a drunken stupor with your bros and/or gal pals its the ability to laugh about what happened in relationship(s) past that can give you an outlet in which you give a humorous spin on his/her stupidity. Oftentimes, being able to laugh at the misfortune of your heart reflecting back at the absolute absurdity of what he/she put you through can initially help in the healing process and for a woman to laugh till she cries with her female friends doing the exact same thing along side with her helps is in all intensive purposes what the doctor ordered.

In retrospect, a person can have this mindset if love doesn't happen for them either today or tomorrow the world is going to end, which is in my opinion quite deluded. What it comes down to is not intently focusing on tomorrow as you just focus instead of living each day with the love of family/friends/God and only then the love you deserve that has all the hopes/dreams deep within their heart will eventually fall into place into yours. In the end, I look forward for my tomorrow to happen someday and He will guide me to a woman I've waited patiently for who I know fulfills all my dreams that I have within my heart into tomorrow, as well as into the coming future, but if tomorrow never comes its okay because I know its not the end the world as God has seen me through my lowest of yesterdays as I pray to Him for the strength to live each day with family/friends by my side.