As said before, a person who is able to go down the proverbial back roads of someone's heart shows there is a genuine interest in getting to know him or her on a more personal level, especially when it involves their adolescent years. It can most definitely be difficult at times to open up and revisit the road of your youth as a guy or girl asks questions concerning your past that may possibly lead him/her to a possible future into your heart. Such questions are: Who was your first real kiss? Who was your first true love? Where did you grow up? Who were you friends with? Did you have a place growing up that was considered your safe haven to just get away from the world? You see, it's these particular questions and others like it that you're inevitably heading in the right direction instead of the wrong one.
If you think about it, part of what makes journeying the back roads of the human heart so thrilling and yet scary at the same time is being able to have him or her share their thoughts with you. Thoughts that can weigh heavily on his or her mind to the point where the mental journey starts off smoothly but gradually turns rough and rugged like your driving on a gravely road. Oftentimes, you have to endure being hit by those rocks of fear, doubt, skepticism, etc. that person of interest is metaphorically kicking up because love is primarily about trying to understand as to why he/she is thinking that way, which is a tough situation indeed. What it comes down to is not turning around/bailing out when he/she is mentally putting himself/herself out there because the road conditions were just either too harsh, treacherous, and/or dangerous.
Let me ask you this question, is there someone you were close to in your life that may or may not have passed away and when you think about him/her you get emotional to where tears are shed? Husband, wife, mother, father, sister, brother, best friend, son, daughter, grandmother, and/or grandfather are people who have a special place in your heart and it's a place that not too many people rarely visit. Why? The simple answer is that nobody bothers to because there are times when establishing a relationship where you can become focused more on the person rather than the people behind the person. Let me tell you something, you can really appreciate a guy or girl who takes the turn into an area of your heart that is heavily protected and is able to handle a touching, heartfelt subject matter as losing a family member with such delicate ease you grow closer to each other.
In retrospect, the road of love is never an easy one as you can in all intents and purposes find yourself driving the same path all over again. It can be absolutely frustrating not being able to locate the right road within your heart that leads to true happiness and yet it's there as it's a matter of meeting someone along your journey who unknowingly takes you off the beaten path. In other words, you as the driver/passenger just enjoy the ride with the guy/girl without having to worry about flirting, if there is any kind of attraction, or whatever the case may be. Women, more often than not, want a guy who takes the time to travel every road, both seen and unseen, within their heart giving them the opportunity to finally be on the path they've always wanted to be on. In the end, as a guy you let the woman drive you around her heart and when a turnoff or back road presents itself you ask her can you take me there, which is a song by People's Choice Awards Favorite Group of 2008 Rascal Flatts.
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