Sunday, August 12, 2007

Never Run Dry

Someone once said, ~If you love somebody, they shouldn't make you cry, they should be worth crying over.~ Thinking about it, when it comes to love or true love for that matter the tears a person sheds can be considered one of the most precious gifts one can ever receive from somebody who is absolutely worth crying over. How many people can truly say they've been honestly and genuinely touched within their heart to the point where you become so emotionally overwhelmed that you find yourself smiling? For its tears of joy rather than tears of sadness that make being in love worthwhile and women more than anything seemingly wait all their lives to have a moment unlike any other where their tears mean something instead of having them mean nothing at all.

As said before, tears have meaning to a woman and as a guy you don't have any earthly idea what specific emotion they're exuding exactly making it difficult for us to know what to say or how to act...but I digress. A woman's tears can most definitely represent happiness and sadness when it pertains to a potential and/or significant relationship, but there's a lot more to it than that as you'll amazingly find a plethora of other emotions deeply hidden within those tears. You see, it can go much deeper than being just happy and sad as a woman's tears can also represent struggle, loneliness, confusion, anger, love, heartbreak, resentment, frustration, hate, bitterness, redemption, acceptance, as well as, triumph, which can be all be seen running down her cheek.

Without a doubt, a woman can most definitely feel as if she is drowning on the inside from all the tears that run down her cheek. In a sense, it's those same tears that can cause her to lose herself and it takes strength for a woman to not completely let go to where she spirals out of control within not just her heart, but soul as well. It's amazing how any woman can keep herself together when they are both mentally and emotionally working out their feelings towards a guy who is either going to make them very happy or regret ever opening her heart to, which can be physically draining. Let me tell you something, much respect is given to all women who continue to have a tight grip on who they are and haven't let their tears control them to the point where they drown within themselves.

Let me ask you this question ladies, how many of you in the past have cried over a guy who wasn't really deserving of your tears? It's a sad situation indeed when you talk on the phone or in person with female friends who have cried over a guy you knew was all wrong for them and even warned them of getting hurt, but they refused to listen causing them to be one of many unfortunate victims of love, so to speak. Essentially, when a woman is able to reflect back on the times of crying herself to sleep they hopefully realize those tears were merely wasted ones and even though she can never get them back, she can find solace in the fact that the tears that left her mentally, physically, as well as, emotionally weak in the past will make her a stronger person in the future.

In retrospect, a woman's tears of love have special importance to her as they can signify both cleansing of the soul and personal growth. In some aspect, the tears that are shed can either flow smoothly like a calm river or like a raging flood. It all depends on the guy who can, in some way, affect her heart/soul to where she gradually opens herself up to reveal a side that she doesn't want anyone or any guy for that matter to see and that is an absolutely scared human being. In the end, it's what makes love for a woman so real as she meets somebody who even though she's scared out of her mind she can be herself around him all-the-while sharing happy, tearful memories with and to those woman who have a guy that is worth crying over instead of one that make them cry all I have to say to you is may your tears never run dry.

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