My Happy Ending

Someone once said, ~You know when you have found your prince because you not only have a smile on your face but also in your heart as well.~ It would be a safe guess that it's every woman's dream to meet, fall in love, and marry their very own handsome prince charming. For its a most excellent storybook fairytale for any woman to have happen making her dream she's had since the time she was a little girl possibly come true. Unfortunately, when it comes to her own personal story of love or true love for that matter it may not be considered such a classic story to read or have made into a Disney animated film because the bittersweet reality of it is that it can sometimes be compared to the stories of The Brothers Grimm, which are not suitable for the eyes and ears of children.

Let me ask you this question ladies, how many of you have truly felt you were genuinely treated like a lady should by a guy who you thought only existed in fairytales? It's rare for any woman to meet or even find a guy who exudes the prince charming qualities because there are women who believe it's all just made up fiction to keep hope alive for those who still believe in happy endings. For some, most or all women, experience has taught them to not believe there is such a thing as true love because all they've ever found was utter heartbreak that has left them bitter, angry, and considerably scared. Let me tell you something, there may be guys out there who may look the part of prince charming, but all they really are are just immature frogs.

Without a doubt, every woman has heard the saying you have to kiss a few frogs before finding the one special prince. For it's a true statement indeed and yet for many women out there it seems as if all they're ever kissing are frogs who lie, deceive, and hop around on them behind their back, so to speak. It can be an absolutely frustrating situation to be in as a woman can start to gradually feel foolish into thinking that she may never break the proverbial spell with a kiss and have her stand face to face with her so-called prince charming. However, its not the woman who should be foolish, it's the frogs that hide behind false facades inevitably bringing disappointing expectations, broken promises, and unfulfilled wishes leaving her suffering agonizing pain in her heart, as well as, soul.

As said before, any woman would like nothing more than to have her very own fairytale story of true love come to fruition, but oftentimes it can like the dark and dreary tales of The Brothers Grimm rather than the classic, happy, romantic tales of Disney in the past. Why? When it comes to their own sordid tales of past relationships they can be considered nightmarish to the point where she can suffer, in such graphic detail, tortuous mental and emotional pain. You see, for any woman being brutally hurt by any man who, in some aspect, cut open her chest with a knife, ripped away the flesh, grabbed her heart, and showed it to her all-the-while squeezing the last remaining beat of life out of it essentially causes her to be scared of ever having her fairytale dream of true love become a reality.

In retrospect, there comes a point where a woman has the realization that maybe she should just grow up, face the reality that there are no true prince charmings left in the world, and forget about the dream of a fairytale love story she believed in as a little girl to come to fruition. As harsh as that may sound to where you want to accept it as fact, don't ever give up on the possibility of it happening to you because the fact of the matter there are guys out there who are in somewhat of a similar situation...but I digress. In the end, be rest assured ladies that your true prince charming is out there and he will metaphorically crown your heart ultimately giving you the opportunity to finally say with a smile on your face, as well as, in your heart you have given me my happy ending. ly giving you the opportunity to finally say with a smile on your face, as well as, in your heart you have given me my happy ending.