Your Everything

Someone once said, ~I have you. A lover and a friend. You are everything I need. You are the sun, the air I breathe. Without you, life wouldn't be the same. Please don't ever go away. And if you go, then don't forget to take me with you.~ As a guy, there comes a point in life where you meet someone who is everything you ever wanted in a woman. However, you oftentimes wonder what you can possibly ever give/offer her so you start asking yourself if you're able to give her everything she's been looking for and wanting in a guy. Even though there aren't any doubts whatsoever concerning everything she has given you, there are doubts as to whether or not one can live up to those expectations of giving/offering everything to her what a past relationship or past relationships failed to do.

In some aspect, every woman is looking for and wants a guy who can be her very own therapist that she can turn to in order to not only have her problems heard, but also have them possibly solved as well. Primarily, what a woman wants is a guy who will be able to listen to what has been bothering her and hopefully he can reciprocate by giving back real feedback. When I say real feedback, I mean a response that involves giving his open, honest opinion that is well thought out and not a response that merits a dumbfounded look of silence or a shrug of the shoulders with the words I don't know added. It's when a guy is able to give/offer a woman peace of mind, he is truly deserving of being paid in full with hugs and kisses.

Without a doubt, every woman looks for/wants a guy who can give/offer the qualities of not just one superhero, but several different ones. For he exudes the fun, laughter, and excitement of Spider-Man with the caring sensitivity of Peter Parker. He has the no nonsense attitude and quiet smoothness of Batman with a hint of arrogant self-confidence of Bruce Wayne. The strength and love of Superman with the boyish charm of Clark Kent. The age defying timelessness that's unforgettable of Wolverine with the bad boy mentality women tend to be attracted to. Add the moral character and intellect of Beast, the heart and determination of the Hulk, and the wisdom and leadership of Professor X and ultimately what a woman gets, as well as, sees is a person who is more than just a 1 dimensional character, so to speak.

Let me ask you this question ladies, how high on the scale of importance for you to have a guy share and show with you his more romantic Don Juan side? It's probably near the top or at the top of the list of things that most definitely pleases, excites, and surprises her when it involves showing a side of ourselves that tends to not be seen. Why? Essentially, it threatens our masculinity to where we try suppress it, but a woman has the ability to see through the tough guy exterior to where she has that uncanny ability to bring out our softer, affectionate side. Let me tell you something, being able to get in touch with your romantic side is nothing to be ashamed of as it gives/offers women the chance to see firsthand how romance is not dead, but rather is being kept alive by hopeless romantics like myself.

In retrospect, women more than anything would love to have a guy that is considered, in their minds, a jack of all trades. Its a guy who hopefully gives/offers not only the above mentioned, but also the following things as well: A chef who can cook her a gourmet meal from scratch. A spiritual guide who is her compass when she gets lost both personally and emotionally. A massage therapist who can rub the aches and pains of the day that stress her out. Thinking about it, that's just the tip of the iceberg as there's more that a woman thinks a guy possibly can give/offer, but unfortunately the list is too long to mention for this particular thought. In the end, trust me ladies when I say that there is a guy out there for you who wants to be, will at least try to be, or is your everything, which is a song by the top male country music vocalist winner of 2006 Keith Urban.