Wednesday, September 20, 2006

Poetry In Motion

Charles Stanley once said, ~Romantic love reaches out in little ways, showing attention and admiration. Romantic love remembers what pleases a woman, excites her, and surprises her. its actions whisper: you are the most special person in my life.~ Thinking about it, every man is given the opportunity to share his softer side with a woman who truly inspires him to be one with his inner poet. As a so-called poet we try to find the universal meaning of what love is all about when it pertains to that special someone. In a sense, a woman is our proverbial muse as we try to hopefully find out and make a reality the things that pleases, excites, as well as, surprises a woman, which I may have the answers to.

Without a doubt, nothing pleases a woman more when a man is actually listening to what she is saying to him and not just pretending to listen to where he responds back at the information given to him. One of the most important things in a relationship to a woman is being able to listen and understand whatever message she is trying to get across to him loud and clear, whether it's hidden or straight forward. Sometimes we may get it and other times we may not, as it is just a matter of picking up the clues she tends to drop every so often. By giving your full and undivided attention to what she is saying, it shows her not only how much he has respect for you as a woman, but also as a person.

Oftentimes, a man showing his appreciation in his own way to a woman can bring her to a point of indescribable excitement. Countless stories can be told of women doing something heartfelt, as well as, thoughtful for a guy she was potentially interested in or in a significant relationship with, he reciprocates by giving a small gift or taking her to dinner as a token of his appreciation. However, it's a sad situation indeed when a guy doesn't appreciate what she did, which says something to her. It says to her he's not considerate enough to appreciate the thought, time, and effort I put into something special, which I was happy to do, but now I see you're just an inconsiderate jerk who doesn't deserve my attention or me for that matter.

Let me ask you this question ladies, do you like surprises, especially when it comes from a guy you're either potentially interested in or in a relationship with. As we all know, guys tend to lose the ability to remember certain dates/events that are considered to be special such as an anniversary or a birthday. Yet, a guy can most definitely surprise a woman by not only remembering those important dates/events, but also finding out that he put a lot of planning into what he was going to do for you days, weeks, and/or even months in advance touches the cockles of her heart. Let me tell you something ladies, you're absolutely lucky to have a guy who goes out of his way to show how much he loves you that you just love him even more.

W.B. Yeats once said, ~Out of the quarrel with others we make rhetoric; out of the quarrel with ourselves we make poetry.~ In retrospect, every man has written within their own heart words that are considered deeply poetic, as well as, romantic, and it take a woman who is truly special to finally let the words he has been wanting to share flow free from his lips to her heart. Its words of genuine honesty, that when a woman hears it from the man she loves either for the 1st time or 101st time its absolute pure poetry. In the end, it's when a man's acts and words of love, which remember how to please, excite, as well as, surprise her in different ways, continue to move her both personally and emotionally, it's poetry in motion.

No comments: