Heaven Sent

Someone once said, ~Everytime God creates a soul in Heaven, He creates another to be its special mate. Once we are born, we begin the search for our soulmate, the one person who's the perfect fit for our mind and body. The lucky ones find each other.~ In some aspect, God is considered the perfect matchmaker who sets you up with that one true special mate that every single person wonders about since they were a kid. Without a doubt, it can be frustrating to constantly meet Mr./Ms. Wrong to the point you just want to give up on dating entirely and just be happy living the single life. Let me tell you something, its not just you that may feel that way because all single people feel that way and it can make a person lose faith that his or her prayers aren't being answered.

For the most part, we all pray to God a somewhat similar prayer when it pertains to one's so called perfect match. A match in which we give Him the 411 on the type, personality, and description of who each of us are basically looking for in a potential significant other. Yet, while people tend to lie, leave out, and/or exaggerate certain detail on one's bio and info, God knows every detail that a person hides. Essentially, He will not only take into consideration the positive aspects but also the negative aspects which in His own way will turn it into some kind of positive in the eyes of that particular bachelor or bachelorette. Let me ask you this question, are there any negative qualities you have that you try to keep on the down low?

If you think about it, the dating service industry is a business that thrives on people helping you find a guy or girl that meets the standards, qualities and interests one is looking for. Its these traits that can have a person either knowingly or unknowingly share which can match two people who are total opposites or who are eerily the same. Its primarily a service that either fulfills a person's every expectations or give countless disappointments. Its this type of service that certain people constantly put their entire faith in and yet seem to never find happiness. However, when you put your faith in God's unflawess service, he will be able to connect you with someone that can truly make and keep you happy for a lifetime.

Personally speaking, when it comes that special soul, I know God will direct me to her or both of us towards each other. Without a doubt, He knows who is my perfect match, which is a comforting thought indeed. Yet, there are times where I want to sit down with Him face to face and ask him straight up who she is, but that would take all the excitement out of it? But the question I have to ask myself is what woman would want a guy who is at times serious, hard headed, tends to overthink certain situations, and a bit of a procrastinator. However, I'm laid back, a nice guy, caring, thoughtful, driven, and relatively smart. Plus, I genuinely like kids, have a sarcastic sense of humor, and if you ask me what I'm thinking I will actually tell you, which is hopefully qualities that some woman out there is looking for.

In retrospect, God works in mysterious ways and his methods to bring two people together, who are perfect for each other, can never be questioned. Its a matter of having absolute faith that He has chosen the right one for you and doing it on His own timetable. A timetable where some, most, or all people can get pretty impatient. Whether or not a person will rely on God's will or rely on dating websites such as eHarmony or reality shows such as The Bachelor/The Bachelorette, its really up for him or her to decide. Many lucky people have found each other, are happily in love, and have raised a family to be proud of. In the end, the special matches God created for each of us will absolutely be considered angels and my angel will truly be Heaven sent.