A Sight To Behold

Jeph Jacques once said, ~A good relationship is like fireworks: loud, explosive, and liable to maim you if you hold on too long.~ In some aspect, matters of the heart in regards to a loving/true love relationship are like a spectacular fireworks display but never ends. For its an amazing situation indeed to be a part of something absolutely special and yet it can all be over within a blink of an eye. In a sense, that's how true happiness can most definitely be perceived as at times as a person's heart strings are metaphorically lit when a guy or girl potentially falls in love. However, it's the so-called explosive material within an individual's heart that determines whether the fireworks of a possibly flourishing relationship will either be a complete dud or shoot straight up and go off with a bang, in a good way of course.

Without a doubt, you get more bang for your buck...pun intended...when experiencing not just the amazing visual effects/display, but hearing how much of a huge impact it can be on a deeply personal level. Thinking about it, the same sensory experience can also certainly be felt and in some ways seen within one's own heart to the point where the explosive material within represents our feelings and emotions being set off either one by one or all at once. Every person has been in the past or currently is in a type of situation where there was/is a grand light show of explosions going on inside his/her heart because of a guy or girl that essentially lit the fuse, so to speak. Let me tell you something, the success of a relationship shooting up towards the stars depends on the genuine purity of the initial spark for that special someone.

If you think about it, like fireworks, relationships to a certain degree can be considered explosive if handled in the correct way. I think I can safely say we all know someone or quite possibly are someone who handled a relationship incorrectly. You see, it started off in the beginning stages of a seemingly wondrous and awe inspiring extravaganza of love where the explosiveness between the two of you was too hot to handle. However, it's during their dance across the metaphorical night sky that is the human heart, negative factors such as jealousy, anger, dishonesty, disrespect, mistrust, doubt, fear, etc. caused an explosive and not to mention volatile relationship. It's a sad state of affairs when you, him/her, or both of you end up getting maimed or burned, in a manner of speaking, to where a scar has been left on your/their heart as an unfortunate reminder.

Let me ask you this question to those who have witnessed in person or on tv a fireworks show, what part of it do you look forward to the most? If you said the finale you would be correct because you want to view an awesome instead of disappointing ending leaving you with a smile on your face rather than a frown. In a way, each of us wants to experience that one of a kind memorable finale but with one difference, which is it's a neverending light show filled with joy, happiness, contentment, honesty, trust, faith, hope, communication, etc. Fortunately, for a certain number of people they're currently experiencing it right now as we speak and it's awesome so much so that you can't help but smile for them. Hey, there is no end in sight for those you know that their relationships will last forever as it's a continual grand finale after grand finale for the both of them.

In retrospect, fireworks can oftentimes be taken for granted and the same can be said for a loving relationship too. Essentially, a person can go through the motions or should I say the oohs and aahs when it pertains to the colorful bursts/picture of a new relationship. The unfortunate tendency is to burn or explode brighter than the other and that is the mistake right there my friend. Unfortunately, they tend to forget what the true meaning is all about and that is the special moments, big or small, are shared together to make an even tremendous portrait for others to see. What it primarily comes down to is not using up all the fireworks because every once in a while he'll/she'll/you'll shoot up a few surprises for him/her/you. In the end, I say to those who continue to have a flourishing loving relationship that dances across the night sky of each other's heart I hope it never ends because for people like me it's truly a sight to behold.