Forever For You

Someone once said, ~Somewhere in life you fall in love. It changes you forever whether it be bad or good. It changes you...everything, even a smile, a touch, even a simple thing as a stare in the eyes means everything to you. Pray that someday you find your special someone.~ Without a doubt, when you fall in love it can most definitely change in ways that can be viewed as either bad or good. For one's whole outlook on not only love but relationships as well completely changes when you finally meet someone who you connect with on every level. True, it may have been indeed a difficult journey to be at a place of absolute contentment within your own heart but for the most part it was truly worthwhile, which is what love/true love is don't you think?

As said before, when you fall in love it can most definitely change you in ways that can be viewed as either bad or good. Thinking about it, when you know it's good between you and your significant other everything seems to absolutely clique without any problems whatsoever. I think it would be safe to say that when you have aspects of a relationship such as trust, honesty, faith, communication, commitment, respect, etc. the problems faced together ultimately tend to work themselves out. Hey, it's just a matter of working with each other instead of against each other to the point where the word forever doesn't cause you or your significant other to cringe but rather express a smile as you both look lovingly towards one another.

If you think about it, falling in love can certainly change you forever in a bad way but in the same sense can be considered good as well. What do I mean? For those who are in a potential and/or significant relationship, how is your level of sanity in regards to dealing with not only the bad habits, but also the weird/strange eccentricities of your bf/husband/gf/wife that can truly drive you crazy? Essentially, those habits/eccentricities are what make him/her absolutely special in his/her own way. You see, even though he/she can drive you nuts when doing it unbeknownst to them, you somehow can't imagine not being able to live without it because quite frankly you're so used to it that it's simply become part of the dynamic of your relationship with him/her.

Let me ask you this question to those in a significantly strong relationship, how do you know it's going to last forever? In my opinion, you don't know because nothing is ever really for certain in this life, especially when it pertains to true happiness. Granted, love can change you when something like a simple smile, a simple touch, as well as a simple stare directed your way causes you not to remember your own name. What it comes down to is being able to keep the smile on your face when things get rough, be continually touched not just physically but emotionally, spiritually, as well as mentally, and stare into the eyes of someone you love knowing full well he/she doesn't cause you to ever doubt his/her commitment to you is forever.

In retrospect, forever is a word that tends to have two different meanings particularly when it concerns love/true love. For a certain number of people it actually feels like forever in experiencing true happiness as you find yourself dealing with pangs of utter heartbreak such as frustration, anger, confusion, doubt, etc. However, for those who know all too well the feeling of forever in which you and your special someone are in a state of euphoric bliss I tip my hat to you both praying you'll go the distance. In the end, for people living the single life like myself we pray to God to one day meet that certain someone who we will fall in love with hoping to say to him/her I want to be a part of your life forever for you.