Unbreak My Heart

Someone once said, ~Of course, you're going to get your heart broken. And it isn't just going to happen once, but a lot. That's just part of growing up, and it makes you stronger. Then you can handle it better next time. You may not get through it yourself, but your friends will help you through it. And you'll be a stronger person because of it. Then one day someone will come along, and it'll all pay off and no one will ever break your heart again.~ Without a doubt, matters of the heart can at times be considered a cruel bastard. For it's a tough situation indeed to face heartbreak leaving you with so many unanswered questions, especially if those questions left unanswered pertain to a certain someone you are in real genuine love with.

If you think about it, when it comes to the pangs of utter heartbreak you try to make sense of the actions and/or words of the guy/girl in question who did you wrong. Essentially, when you absolutely know the reason or reasons for why you're heartbroken you can deal with it all-the-while gradually healing mentally, emotionally, personally, and spiritually. However, when you're left without any answers to speak of you deal with it by trying to search for the answers and its during the search the pain will gradually grow to the point where you inevitably become mentally, emotionally, personally, as well as spiritually numb within your heart due to the sheer impact of it all, which is an experience quite a number of people have gone through or are currently going through.

As said before, making sense of heartbreak can most definitely be difficult to even understand. Thinking about it, if I had to guess it would be like having a straight jacket strapped on to you trying to get out of it. In a sense, all your emotions and feelings are for all intents and purposes wrapped tightly around your heart and no matter what you do you can't seem to escape from it. For even the smallest function done on a semi daily basis are impaired as things such as thinking and breathing are difficult making the emotional straight jacket around your heart increasingly tighter leaving you to constantly struggle to where you;re left doing the only logical thing to do when you think nobody can truly help in your time of need...cry.

Let me ask you this question, when experiencing heartbreak from a guy/girl you're in a real genuine like with and the physical aspect of the relationship was involved, what best describes how you feel? Betrayed, disappointed, angry, frustrated, bitter, confused, the feeling of wanting to crawl out of your own skin, etc. are just a plethora of emotions one may possibly feel when you bring yourself to become vulnerable with a guy/girl and completely let your guard down. Hey, we all know someone or are that someone who is in that type of situation. It's a sad state of affairs for a person who feel as if a part of himself/herself can never be given back after sharing an intimate moment with a guy/girl who supposedly cared about him/her.

In retrospect, heartbreak is a hard pill to swallow, so to speak, and as much as it painfully hurts to not know why you can't let it become something you hold on to. You see, you have to let it go because if you continue to harbor all those feelings/emotions they will fester and when/if you do meet the right guy/girl something in that relationship will cause you to flashback leading you to throw all that baggage on to him/her, which is never a good thing. In any case, heartbreak can make you stronger just as long as you don't keep it locked away in your heart. In the end, to get through the pain you know you can rely on your best buds/gals to help you through because even though you don't want to outright say it you want them to be at your side and trust they will as you say to them help me to unbreak my heart, which is song by six time Grammy Award winner Toni Braxton that best reflects this thought.