Sunday, October 04, 2009

Lucky In Love

Someone once said, ~Lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man.~ Let me ask you this question to those in a significant relationship, how many of you are truly lucky to have a guy/girl in your life who absolutely loves you with all of his/her heart and vice versa? For it can most definitely put a smile not only on your face, but in your heart as well to be with someone who you're lucky enough to have as your very best friend for life. You certainly have to pinch yourself at times just to make sure you're not dreaming because when it comes to love or true love for that matter you can't help but thank God for leading you to/sending you someone who is so unbelievable you think to yourself you can't really be this lucky.

Without a doubt, there are a number of people who are lucky enough to be with the love of their lives. As said before, to be in a significant relationship with your very best friend is what many of us living the single life strive to have someday. We all know couples that when you see them together you think how lucky they are to have found/met each other as their individual journey experiencing past sadness, frustration, anger, loneliness, etc. are forgotten as they both are presently living the good life heading towards a prosperous future together. Essentially, the love they share can be witnessed by the looks in their eyes but it's not a look of lust as it is more a look in which two people are very fortunate to share a love that is genuinely honest and real.

If you think about it, there are people out there who believe their luck as run out when it pertains to matters of the heart. It's a sad situation indeed to be friends with someone or is someone who has unfortunately suffered a streak of bad luck in the dating scene. For most, or all people they have been in this constant unlucky streak for quite some time and would like nothing more than to have the streak of unwanted heartbreak and disappointment to be over with. In a sense, a person doesn't want to be for in all intents purposes in a Susan Lucci type situation in regards to relationships where you seemingly end up coming short of what is within reach as you so want to experience something extraordinary wonderful for a change, which is what many single people would love to have happen.

For the question can be asked, how many of you consider your significant other your proverbial good luck charm? The reason I'm asking is because when you're with him/her you feel as if everything is going your way and nothing is going to cause you to lose the smile plastered on your face. I think you would agree you are given the greatest gift of love/true love. It's possibly worth much more than a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. Thinking about it though, its not a matter of luck as you put your faith and trust in such things as a rabbit's foot, a penny, or whatever the case may be as it is a matter of putting your faith and trust in God who provides you with all the luck He can provide knowing full well it will never run out as long as you pray, as well as read His word.

In retrospect, every person is lucky to have someone who can make it much easier than making it harder when things in life become incredibly difficult. It's a sad state of affairs for any guy/girl who is in a relationship with someone who makes you sick and tired of just being sick and tired as they are always finding themselves either in tears, heated arguments, not smiling, or not at all in a good mood. Ultimately, you know he/she is bad luck and you have to do what's best for you in order to attain the luck you're truly deserving of within your own heart. In the end, to those who are lucky in love I tip my hat to you as I hope the two of you stay hopelessly in love for years to come. A song that best reflects this thought is Lucky by Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat.

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