Saturday, May 02, 2009

Someone

Someone once said, ~Love may come in all kinds of strange, unexpected ways. Yet, once love comes, it comes to stay.~ Without a doubt, the purest and oftentimes the truest kind of love happens when it comes unexpectedly between two people who didn't get along at first or started out as friends. For it’s a type of relationship where a man and a woman share a platonic friendship where the love they have for each other doesn't involve any kind of sexual tension whatsoever and is built on mutual respect. I think it would be safe to say that when it comes to the simple act of giving your time and just enjoying each other's company to where you don't feel obligated to give anything back in return you're left absolutely comfortable in talking with him/her in personal matters of the heart.

Let me ask you this question ladies, did you ever at some point think you found the guy you had in your mind for your heart only to unfortunately find out he wasn't what quite you expected? It's a frustrating and sad situation indeed for any woman to not have come to fruition their ideal man who she's been longing to see and is able to be such a positive influence in a physical, mental, emotional, personal, and even spiritual way. All too often, when it comes to to a bad past relationship or past relationships for that matter a woman tries her hardest to forget the mistake she made in being with a guy who wasn't truly real and completely honest with her to the point where she feels as if she's lost within her own heart not knowing where the right path is that leads to true happiness.

As said before, a woman can feel as if she's lost within her own heart not knowing where the right path leads to true happiness. If you think about it, that feeling of being lost within herself can be a representation of an innocent lost lamb that has gone astray. In a sense, like a lost lamb a woman can most definitely experience sadness, worry, doubt, anger, frustration, panic, loneliness, etc. Essentially, it takes a guy who can in all intents and purposes shepherds her way gradually back from the emotions that could not only tear away at the innocence of her very being as a person, but could also be easily manipulated to follow the wrong path. Let me tell you something ladies, when you meet a guy like this your eyes, heart, and yourself are opened to something totally unexpected.

For the question can be asked to the ladies in a significant relationship, is the man you're in love with handsome? When I say handsome, I mean is he stunningly good looking like Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. It's these particular men who in their own right are considered by women to be handsome or whatever guys are described these days. Yet, they don't compare to your man who you believe to be the sexiest man alive in your heart and is far beyond in good looks to the above mentioned men. For some women, it's not about being superficial as it is about finding out the unexpected things about a man that makes him absolutely attractive in their eyes to where he holds the right key, in a manner of speaking, that opens up a slew of infinite possibilities causing you to smile from ear to ear.

In retrospect, love happens unexpectedly when you're not even looking for it. You go about your daily life doing your usual routine and then one day a person comes along who doesn't stand out at first, which makes love so special. For a woman, it can sneak up on her in the smallest of ways and no matter how hard she tries to ignore it she can't as there are moments that are shared that are so undeniable it tugs on her heartstrings. Think about this ladies, you will come face to face with a guy you never thought you would fall in love with who may not be what you expected. In the end, you can say to yourself or to that guy thanks for finally showing up because I've been hoping, wishing, praying, and waiting for you to be that someone to watch over me, which is song by Ella Fitzgerald and George Gershwin that was performed in the movie Mr. Holland's Opus.

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