A Perfect Pair

A woman once said, ~How can I put it? Love is like searching for the perfect pair of shoes and finding them. But when he loves you back too, well my friend...that's like finding the shoes, you try them on and they're a perfect fit.~ In some aspect, love or true love for that matter is indeed like searching for the perfect pair of shoes that not only metaphorically fits your own heart, but that someone special as well. Yet, for those of us who are living the single life we are, in a sense, holding in our hand one shoe that initially represents half of our heart and somewhere out there is a guy/girl who holds the other half. For it's a tough situation indeed thinking you may have possibly met the guy/girl you match up perfectly with, so to speak, only to find he/she didn't quite match up or fit at all.

Let me ask you this question ladies, when it comes to searching for the perfect pair of shoes do you go for absolute style that possibly gives way to where it leaves you with a feeling of uncomfortable pain or do you look for dependable quality in which you have this feeling of absolute relief that you got your money's worth, in a manner of speaking? For any woman I would fair to say they would most definitely be comforted within the soul of their own heart in knowing they have a guy or will have a guy in their life who doesn't make them feel as if they're going to be replaced or should I say tossed aside like an old pair of tattered shoes. How many women in significant relationships today can honestly say when it comes to true happiness they have a man who comfortably fits in every aspect of their life.

If you think about it, matters of the heart can oftentimes leave you in all intensive purposes worn out in a mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual way. Every person has, in a sense, walked over a million miles within their heart to the point where there is a hole left behind because of the wear and tear from the stress of bad past relationships. It's a sad situation indeed when instead of being able to always experience that seemingly constant fresh new shoe smell one unfortunately experiences the nasty stench of being used so many times over you don't know whether or not your heart will be able to hold together. For a certain number of people their own heart is falling apart held together by just a mere string and no amount of duct tape will help further the longevity of someone who never fit your heart in the first place.

For the question can be asked again to you ladies, are you the type of woman who takes time in making the best selection in regards to picking the right shoe for your feet or are you impulsive in picking shoes that visually stimulates your eyes? For some, most, or all women they make the mistake of impulsively picking a guy who on the outside looks too good to be true, but when they essentially try him on by talking with him they experience that pinching discomfort within their heart. In other words, a guy may have the flashy style of good looks and a great body on the outside, but on the inside there isn't any substance to him whereby a woman continues to look until she finds one of the things that is most important in a relationship and makes her happy in the long run...commitment.

In retrospect, we're all wanting a type of love that is not only comfortable, but there is also a versatility to it in which you want to experience certain things for every situation in life and love. What do I mean? If you think about it, a woman wants a guy who can make her feel magnificent, sexy and attractive instead of plain, frumpy and unattractive. Plus, he is able to be durable in the oftentimes unpredictable terrain of her heart, which is to be expected in a relationship. Thinking about it, no woman wants to ultimately regret making a poor investment on a guy who isn't able to provide her with everything she needs/wants. In the end, I say to you ladies who are still searching/looking/hunting for the other half of your heart I hope you find him and ultimately become a perfect pair for each other.