May I Cut In

Someone once said, ~All our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose our partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope all the while, wondering if someone is searching for us.~ In some aspect, life is considered one big dance and we're all on the so-called crowded dance floor grooving to the beat of the music that is felt from within our heart. For it’s our heart that metaphorically does the Carlton dance when we meet that special someone. If you think about it, when it comes to the dance known as true love each one of us are in search of/want a partner who can most definitely make one's heart dance for a lifetime.

Without a doubt, we've all done the proverbial back and forth dance that is flirting, as well as, playing hard to get when it comes to a potential or even a significant relationship. It's primarily one of those experiences you go through in life that makes love or relationships for that matter so interesting and yet at the same time can drive you crazy. Why? Even though you and that person may have chemistry, it doesn't necessarily mean that partnership between the two of you will be taken to the next level. What it comes down to is getting into a comfortable, as well as respectable rhythm in order to avoid not being able to keep up with him or her, which is just one of the many steps that will hopefully lead a relationship in the right direction.

Essentially, one of the most important steps in leading a relationship in the right direction is having complete focus. Eye contact is key as you're dancing through life, so to speak, with someone special who when you look into his or her eyes you know that you will be safe in his or her arms as you put your trust in the hands of that person. However, it can be a sad situation indeed as that trust is broken when a guy or girl's focus starts to falter because someone else caught his or her attention to the point that you're left dancing solo not only personally, but also emotionally as well within your heart. What it comes down to is having all the right moves both in yourself and in that person to keep each other focused on what is most truly important.

Let me ask you this question, do you have a partner who has not only honest and genuine chemistry, which can’t be faked, but also has all the right moves, in a manner of speaking. For when people look at you two together they say either to you, that person, themselves, or out loud to others that both of you make a great team. It's a partnership that even though one's toes can be stepped on, which happens from time to time, you continue to keep practicing to get the footwork between the two of you either absolutely perfect or close to to perfect. In other words, no matter how much you get on each other's nerves or mistakes are made, you both work hard to keep the love, as well as, chemistry you share with each other alive.

Someone said, ~True love is when you're still dancing long after the music has stopped.~ In retrospect, you can consider yourself one of the most luckiest people in the world for those who have a partner that has been able to keep the music fresh within your heart that you never get tired, as well as, pushing you in order to bring out your greatest potential. Unfortunately for some people, they haven't had the best of luck with past partners as they found themselves continually "dancing" with loneliness and/or heartbreak. In the end, it's when you least expect it, true love will step on to the dance floor of life, walk up behind you, tap you on the shoulder, and say with a smile on his or her face, may I cut in?