Mark Twain once said, ~Never do tomorrow what you can do the day after tomorrow.~ Let's be honest with ourselves people, we all are at times a bunch of lazy, procrastinating people. We can't help it because it's part of our nature and it's how God made us to have faults that we inevitably need to work on. In our hectic daily lives we put certain things or people on hild for the simple reason of either not having time, not wanting to deal with the drama, or starting and/or finishing a certain task that needs to be dealt with/accomplished. Let me ask you this question to each and every one of you. Is there something, whether it concerns a relationship or something else, that needs to be taken care of that you have been putting off?
Without a doubt, when it comes to school work kids, as well as adults will put it off either until tomorrow or until the last minute to finish something fairly or majorly important. Working with school age kids for the past 9 years, you witness kids starting or finishing homework that he or she should have done the night before or over the weekend. It's not just kids that fall victim to this, college students will pull all-nighters to start or finish a research that was given weeks/months in advance, but it wasn't until the night before it was due that one will risk losing sleep to finish it. We've all done it and it is me or does your printer seemingly not work when something important such as a research paper needs to be printed out?
When it comes to fighting, there comes a point where a person just becomes lazy about it and realizes that it's just not only a waste of time, it's also just plain stupid especially if it's amongst brothers. Speaking from experience, physically fighting with your own brother can be considered one of the most exhausting experiences mainly because when you're young you want to know who's the man, in a manner of speaking. However, when you get older the physical aspect of it all is replaced by talking smack to each other, which is by far a much more immature way of settling things. Hey, it's a guy thing and it saves trips to the hospital because bones don't heal like they used to when you're younger.
Oftentimes, in a significant relationship such as in a marriage there are certain things that a man, more so than a woman, can become lazy about due to the number of years they both have spent together. One such thing that a husband can do for his wife is to show how truly lucky he is to have her as his wife is taking her out on a date. Whether it's a simple moonlit stroll on the beach at night, a movie she would like to see, or going shopping with her which all men dislike doing but they'll have to bite the bullet. Essentially, it shows that a husband still got what it takes to romance the woman he loves after many years of marriage. For the question can be asked to married women, when was the last time your husband took you out on a date?
In retrospect, well all will have our own spurts of laziness from time to time which can either work for us or against us. For some, most, or all people they thrive on the pressure of doing things last minute because, in a sense, to that person it's considered another challenge that life has placed in front of him or her. Yes, others can be a quality which can really hurt a person even when it pertains to a dating or marriage relationship. Ultimately, the responsibility falls squarely on our shoulders to get off our butts and take care what's needed to be done like starting a research paper that I have been putting off so.....eehhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....nevermind....I'll do it tomorrow.
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