She's The One

Someone once said, ~Throughout life you will meet one person who is unlike any other. This one person on could forever talk to. They understand you in a way that no one else does or ever could. This person is your soulmate, your best friend. Don't let them go, for they are your gaurdian angel send from heaven about.~ Ifs a funny thing about life, we meet so many people in our lifetime that we may or may not remember the names that go with the faces. Its those faces that we all pass by on a semi-regular basis whether its a complete stranger or the people we know, care about, and/or love. There comes a point, while on our journey where you will meet that one person who will, has given, or is going to give you a reason to smile and keep that smile on your face.

Let me ask you this question, have you met or encountered someone who totally gave you or is giving you a new and/or different perspective on the way things are seen. Seen through the eyes of that person who somehow can see not only through your eyes, but also see into your heart as well. Its that person who can share, reveal, and/or bring to surface certain truths about yourself, life, and love that we all have or are going through, but really couldn't put it into words. Its a rarity these days to meet someone like this who is truly genuine that you don't don't question the smile he or she gives you, which is oftentimes cause for concern due to the fact you don't know what that person's true intentions are.

For a woman, its hard to meet a guy that sets your own doubts aside when bad past relationships have them playing it safe with their own heart. Essentially, its hard to trust themselves in opening up to a guy that quite possibly could possibly bring her to that deep dark place within one's heart and soul that has been like a sanctuary which keeps not only her anger, frustration, and bitterness but also the love she wants to truly share a give, but is afraid to. For its her own heart and soul that isn't fully whole as there are missing pieces that have been metaphorically taken away by a guy or guys who at one time gave a reason for her to smile only to give her a reason to have that smile, as well as, her heart and soul die.

Without a doubt some, most, or all women have that empty feeling inside that it probably makes them sad/miserable to see people she knows and is friends with have relationships that are filled with friendship, love, communication, and that key word again trust. Let me tell you something, its not only women who feel this way but guys feel this way as well and its a feeling that can make you sick to your stomach and no amount of pepto bismol will make it ever go away. In a sense, women can feel like she has lost her way by forgetting how to love again, and come to the point that she is no longer able to shed anymore tears. For the question can be asked of you ladies, how many of you have felt or are feeling this way, how has that feeling lasted, and is there a guy in your life right now that has your heart potentially smiling again?

There is a thought that I probably would be safe to say that a woman wrote which says:~Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends. Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her.~ Ultimately, every woman will meet or already has met that guy who sees what she doesn't see or want to see about herself and in the end that guy will say either in his head or to his friends she's the one.