If You Were Mine

Someone once said, ~He'd only break your heart you know? Rip it up into pieces and watch you as you gry. He's done it beofre you know? Played with girl's emotions and laughed at them as they die. He's no good for you, you know? Every look in his eyes, every touch of his lips, are just a lie. He's not the one for you, you know? But even though, your heart still can't say goodbye,~ Without a doubt, every woman wants a guy that will treat them the way one wants to be treated. Treated with tender loving care like a flower and it doesn't always involve the phyiscal aspect of love. Essentially, when it comes to love women will encounter guys who will or have treated them with disrespect in three ways: psychological, verbal, and/or physical.

The psychological mistreatment of a woman can most definitely have either short or long term effects. Thinking about it, saying I love you to a woman and to truly mean it can deeply touch her within her heart and soul. However, it can truly be a sad situation indeed when a guy doesn't express those three little words to a woman and there is no meaning behind it. It can get to the point where she will wait to hear those three important words but unfortunately they're never uttered from his lips, which can hurt a woman not only emotionally but also psychologically as well. Let me ask you this question ladies, how many times a day does your significant other express his love for you and is absolutely lucky that you're in his life?

When it comes to the verbal mistreatment of a woman, it can deeply effect her to where one's self esteem is lowered tremendously. Every woman wants a guy that genuinely compliments her on the way she looks, which puts a beautiful smile on her face and makes her day that much more brighter. Unfortunately, there are guys who will verbally assault women to no end on their looks and it can psychologically effect the way they see themselves or how they think others perceive them to be. One such verbal assault can be on he issue of weight, which can create a deep psychological impact on women to the point where she starves herself to death because of what guys or others say about them. For the question can be asked to you ladies, has this particular situation ever happened to you?

We've all either read, seen on the news, witnessed firsthand, or know/knew women who went through the physical mistreatment from a man who supposedly loved her. In all intensive purposes, a man is not considered a man once he physically puts his hands on her no matter how much she verbally and physically provokes a guy, its just not cool. Yet, countless stories can be told of women in abusive relationships who will not leave due tot he fat that she still loves him, which is considered a deluded love that can oftentimes lead in death. Subsequently, the physical and verbal abuse suffered can undeniably leave scars both physical and psychological to where a woman will take drastic measures to ensure that abuse never happens again or to anybody for that matter.

In retrospect, whether its psychological, verbal, and/or physical no woman deserves to be mistreated in any way, shape, or form. For its been said, treat a woman as you would want your own sister to be treated; but if a guy doesn't have a sister then place one's mother into that spot. Working with mostly women for the past 6 years, I've being dragged into conversation where you hear countless complaints of how there aren't any guys who are considered mature gentlemen who treat women like ladies. Let me tell you something, there are guys like this out there who are real, like myself, who will treat you like a lady and in the end, say to you if you were mine I'll make you believe that you are truly special in every way which is a song by Marcos Hernandez. that best reflects this thought.