A Blink Of An Eye

Someone once said, ~Who says love has to make sense? Whoever said that at all? But what I do know, what I HAVE heard, is that men are bastards. Oh yes they are, and age doesn't matter. Age doesn't matter one bit because they learn how to destroy what bit of compassion, love, and hope that women hold inside.~ Not all men, as so bluntly put it, are considered bastards. There are guys out there who women are looking for that are truly genuine and have the qualities to be the man they have always wanted, which some have already found. Working with mostly women for the past several years, you tend to be the proverbial punching bag as to why guys are jerks. For women, there are 3 types of guy to be careful of and one of them is considered the most dangerous.

Unfortunatly, women will fall for the Dr. Jekyl and Mr. Hyde type of guy in which he is one way and then another. Its this split personality where a woman tends to see the side of a guy she really doesn't want to see and experience things such as physical and/or mental abuse. Every woman wants a guy who acts the same way when he is around you and with his friends, but that's often not the case. It can be a sad situation indeed when a women doesn't realize that there is a proverbial red flag warning her that her man may not change how he acts and its time to leave for her own good. For the question can be asked, were you ever or have ever seen someone in this type of relationship?

Essentially, women will sometimes gravitate towards the so called smooth operators that says and does all the right things to touch a woman's heart. Let me ask you this question ladies, when was the last time you went out with a smooth operator and was temporarily blinded? These guys generally fly under a women's highly tuned radar, which can detect if a guy is full of it but infortunately their looks or body, or both can have them be temporarily blinded. One guy who is considered a smooth operater in my book and all women seem to be absolutely in love with this man is Jude Law. Its really unclear if its his James Bond looks and/or his body that women love or the fact that he talks with British accent which would make any woman swoon.

Without a doubt, women tend to fall for the bad boys, which is the most definitely the nice guy's worst enemy. For its these guys who are considered untamed free spirits who live hard, party hard, and take each day too the limit. Some well known celebirty bad boys are Colin Farrell, Dennis Rodman, and of course Tommy Lee who personified the bad boy lifestyle with sex, drugs, rock & roll, as well as some stints in jail. However, there is one bad boy that did turn his bad boy membership and settled down with one of the most beautiful women in Hollywood Denise Richards and that man is Charlie Sheen. Some, most, or all women know what they are getting into and yet, in their minds, they want to try to tame the untamable.

In retrospect, women basically know what they are getting into when it comes to the bad boys and the Dr.Jekyl/Mr. Hyde type. Thinking about it, who knows what kind guys women like because quite frankly it tends to change on a semi-daily basis. All I know is that most women are looking for a guy who has a great sense of humor, honest, can get along with everybody, and hopefully not a guy who is one mcnugget short of a happy meal. So, thequestion was who is the most dangerous guy to be careful of? In the end, the smooth operater is considered the most dangerous because within a blink of an eye a woman will end up heartbroken for the man that she loved not only has walked away with her heart, he's also walked away with your trust and she didn't even see it coming.