Must Be Doing Something Right

Billy Currington said, ~A woman is a mystery. A man't can't just understand. Sometimes all it takes to please her is the touch of your hand. At other times you gotta take it slow, and hold her all night long. Heaven knows there's so many ways, a man can go wrong.~ As a guy, one of the greatest mysteries that is most oftentimes difficult to solve and/or unlock, other than love itself, is a woman's love. For the most part, every guy has been or still is trying figure out a woman's love due to the fact that some, not all, don't take the time to get to know them and what's in their heart. In my honest opinion, a woman's love is boundless, extends far beyond words can ever say, and reaches within the deepest parts of her heart and soul.

Let me ask you this question ladies, was there ever a guy in your life, past or present, who you thought could not only feel but also see the love you had/have for him? Essentially, its that guy who go "it" and new what the love of a women meant to him. It didn't mean just in the phsycal sense, but rather in emotional, spiritual, and intellectual sense as well. For he saw or sees the true bueaty behind the every day and simple things in life when shared in your company. Such beauties in life, which can pretty much be taken for granted at times, are things like a sunrise, a sunset, watching falling rain, a nice quiet dinner for two, sleeping under the stars, and/or dancing barefoot on the beach together under a mooonlit starry night.

In some aspect, a woman's love can be tender and warm as she gives you hugs and kisses that have meaning behind it. It can be flirtatious as she acts shy around around you knowing that there is nothing for her to be shy about. It can be friendly as she hits you are hard as she can in the arm and then apologize for it...sometimes. It can be compassionate as she pours her heart and soul out to you in which tears may or may not be shed. It can be dark and scary as you say or do the wrong things which can cause you to risk serious mental and/or physical injury of some sort. But without question, a woman's love can be absolutely priceless due to the fact that no amount of money can, could, or will never match the love she has for you.

Without a doubt, there is truth in a woman's love and in that truth she reveals to a guy a comfort factor. Its within that truth there comes a creative atmosphere where reason and rational thinking get thrown out the window, in a manner of speaking, and is replaced with something strong, yet fragile which is trust. For the question can be asked, how long does it take for you to be so comfortable around a particular guy that you start to reveal something about yourself? Inevitbaly, its putting faith in something such as trust where truth and love can either do two things for a woman and they are: 1) bring her sadness and emptiness or 2.) bring her happiness and contentment.

Andrea Dworkin once said, ~For a woman, love is defined as her willingness to submit to her own annihilation...The proof of love is that she is willing to be destroyed by the one whom she loves, for his sake. For the woman, love is always self-sacrifice, the sacrifice of identity, will, and bodily integrity, in order to fulfill and redeem the masculinity of her lover.~ In retrospect, the love of a good woman can be found by guys and its just a matter of truly opening their eyes to finally see who they have in front of them. In the end, every guy comes to a point where he thinks to himself as he looks at his girlfriend/wife and says I don't know what I did to deserve you in my life, but whatever it is I must be doing something right.