I Can Fix That

Leo Buscaglia once said, ~The heart is the place where we live our passions. Its is frail and easly broken, but wonderfully resiliant. There is no point in trying to decieve the heart. It depends upon our honesty for its survival.~ Every person has had or will have one's own heart broken which you can't avoid. Essentially, nobody is immune to it and the experience can leave a person confused, angry, sorrowful, as well as depressed. Its those experiences that we don't to feel, but we do due to the fact that we can't help who are own heart likes, is attracted to, or falls in love with. For its when we are left holding or looking at our broken but beating heart, we slowly try to fix the pieces that are left back together again.

In some aspect, the times one suffers heartbreak are the times when you tend to look back and contimplate what you either could, should, would have done or vice versa. For when we are left alone with are thoughts, a person can intially fix the problem and hopefully not let what happened happen ever again. However, one can't really ever know if the mistakes of the past will be fixed and come back to haunt a person in the present you are forging a potential or in a current relationship. Undeniably, one can beat himself or herself up mentally for not fixing or going overboard in fixing the problem such as communicatingby way of sharing one's feelings, listening to that person, or showing affection.

For the most part, women can't go back and fix the times they cried themselves to sleep because of a particular guy. A guy that either didn't notice her, didn't give her much attention, gave her too much attention, or spurned her to the point where swears off all guys for good. For it can take a either a guy who is a real jerk or someone that is really special to have a women become absolutely emotional over. Think about this real hard ladies, how many times have you truly cried your heart out over a guy that meant something special to you that you thought he could actually be the one, but in the end turned out to be the wrong one who completely wasted your time and patience?

Without a doubt, both men and women can't go back and fix the things they said wrong at the right time or the wrong things at the wrong time. In a sense, everytime we stick our foot in our mouths a metaphorical truck smashes into our heart, as well as, that particular person too leaving behind tire tread marks that leave a lasting impression. Depending on how many times we say the wrong things can either greatly lesson or add one's chances of having that truck miss one's heart or completely smash it to pieces. Oftentimes, the wrong things that are said can actually help in fixing a potential/significant relationship or end one which inevitably needed some much needed truth even though he, she, or both doesn't want to accept it.

In retrospect, the human heart is like a house that needs to be fixed after suffering some damage to it. The foundation of one's own heart can no longer support the many times it has been broken. For it one own heart that will sink lower and lower with every heartbreak until he or she can't see or feel the beat of it any longer. Unquestionably, the tears that one sheds can represent a leaky roof that has been leaking for a said period of time. Whether or not its tears of joy, anger, or sadness its only that person who really knows for sure. In the end, someone truly special will come along who will gently lift your head up by the chin, look into your eyes, wipe those tears away and simply say I can fix that.