Queen Of My Heart

Someone once said, ~Love is respect, love is admiration. Love is all the world can give you, and love is dedication. Love is the funny feeling in your stomach, the shaking of the knees, the sweaty palms, the dry mouth, and the sense of ease. Love never withers.~ Let me ask you this question, with that previous statement said, can love bring you back to that person if you either break up or divorce him or her? It's that proverbial big question mark which you can never really answer due to who that particular person may be and whether or not you can see yourself still being friends with him or her. For it has been said that every road unknowingly takes you back to something or someone that you love and/or care about.

Without question, one tends to know or recognize the feeling of a potential break up or divorce that can have two people mutually going their separate ways and not have bitter feelings towards each other. It's that mutual love, respect, and admiration for each other to move on with life, be happy, and not worry how each other is feeling emotionally. Though it can be hard to do for the first couple of weeks or months due to the fact it's basically a transitional phase in one's own life. A transitional phase where a person has to start back at square one with his or her own heart, which can be a very easy thing to do or a very painful thing to do depending on the person.

Yet, before it ever comes to fruition both people spend the last remaining moments with each other looking back at the good times rather than the bad and it usually happens at a particular spot that meant so much to you and that person. It's while you look back you both smile, laugh, as well as, cry a little or a lot and share one last long embrace. An embrace, which represents a finality of a relationship that is about to end when or if one lets go. It can be an absolutely difficult thing to do letting go of someone that you love and care about knowing that you may never be in each other's company ever again. However, you and that person don't want to think about it and by simply closing your eyes the moment you both share is, in some way, captured in time.

Essentially there is an understanding that both have to test out the proverbial relationship waters to find out if he or she is truly the one for you to spend the rest of your days with. For the most part, you know you feel absolutely safe in his or her arms and when you hold that person's hand you somehow know it feels right. For it is as if he or she is leading you in the right direction, but in the back of your minds, you both primarily ask yourselves is it in the right direction. Initially, it's at that point you both take that relationship detour and see what life is like apart from each other. It's within that trial separation that may last weeks, months, or even years that two separate paths will cross again and a decision will be made.

In retrospect, whether it's better off apart or better off together is a decision best left for the only two people that know for sure. For if it's better to be apart he or she will never be gone because all a person simply has to do is close your eyes and look into your heart. If it's better to be together then it's both people's obligation to keep the relationship strong and make each other happy as best they can. To some certain extent, love is somewhat like being part of royalty without all the scandals and paparazzi. A girl will consider that one guy her Prince Charming who permanently puts the slipper back on her foot. As for a guy, he will say to himself as his heart metaphorically bows down to her, that she will forever be the queen of my heart. A song that best reflects this thought is by Westlife entitled Queen Of My Heart.