You're Hired

Donald Trump said, ~Experience taught me a few things. One is to listen to you gut, no matter how good something sounds on paper. The second is that you generally better off with sticking with what you know. And the thri is that sometimes your best investments are the one's you don't make.~ In some aspect, whether its guys or girls, potential relationships are complicated to get off the ground, in a manner of speaking. One has to listen to your own instincts to figure out if that person meets the standards that you have set forth. In a funny and interesting kind of way, its like potential relationships are like going through a job interview somewhat compared to the popular show The Apprentice; but one doesn't receive a job at the end, on the contrary he or she receives that person's heart, which is the best prize one can ever be given.

If you think abou it each of us start out with anonymite as, in some as aspect, hide in the shadows and wait for the right tome to reveal ourselves. Its sort of like the dark side of the force finally overwhelming the Jedi in episode 3, which was an awesome movie and it answered many questions that star wars fans wanted to know; but I digress. In any case, a person steps out of the proverbial crowd and stands front and center hoping that particular person who has the so called power, either accepts you or denies you. Let me ask you this question, when you finally decided to step out of crowd and revealed yourself to that particular person was his or her reaction happiness, shock, or utter disappointment?

More often than not, what ever potenial "employer" looks at are our own individual resumes which determines if you fit some, most, or all of the qualifications that he or she is looking for. For women, there is an endless list of qualifications that they look for in a guy; but for guys, that list of qualifications can be counted on one hand, maybe two. Yet, when it comes to a potential relationship, there is an absolute unknown as to who that person will choose in the end because quite frankly the time spent proving and/or explaining why one should be accepted to the position that will hopfully have you side by side with him or her. Oftentimes it can work for you and unfortunately it also can work against you as well.

Without a doubt, a person can be considered "overqualified" for the position and that type of person I am speaking of is the supposed nice guy and/or nice girl. Its truly amazing when a seemingly qualified "applicant" gets turned down only to have a less qualified person be chosen, which can be a frustrating situation indeed. What's most undoubtedly frustratiing is that even though he or she has initially turned you down that person wants you at one's side, not in a personal way; but rather a "just friends" way. For its that all too familiar secondary position that guys, as well as girls, end up filling and to be perfectly honest nobody wants to ever be put in it; but one humbly accepts the job and does his or her duties as if one were chosen by him or her.

In retrospect, you never really know who lies on their resume in order to get their proverbial foot in the door so to speak. Ultimately, its better to be honest from the beginning than to continually cover up lies and certain indescretions that will be eventually found it. for its just a matter of time. Essentially, its that arrogance or overconfidence which can bite a person in the butt and inevitably that person will hear the words that were made famous by Donald Trump with hand gesture included...You're Fired! In the end, whether it takes several interviews or just one interview, when you finally meet the perfect candidate for the job you can say this with an absolute smile on your face...You're Hired!