The Key

Someone once said, ~There is a place you can touch a woman that will drive her crazy and that place is her heart.~ Let me ask you this question ladies and feel free to respond back, what sort of things will a guy genuinely do for you that will put a smile on your face and make your heart melt? For it's one of those so-called "it" factors in which you put your proverbial stamp of approval on that particular guy who you hopefully believe is worth completely opening your heart to. Yet, for some guys, they believe that to truly touch a woman's heart you basically have to give her bad pick-up lines, wear flashy clothing, drive a fast car, which ultimately isn't the way to go.

Initially, you have to be observant and pay attention to certain things about a woman that make her uniqueness such an attractive quality. Such unique qualities are the certain way she smiles, laughs, gives that trademark look that she has perfected, and/or twirls her hair when she is truly interested in a guy. For when these qualities are combined it's a deadly combination that no guy in the world can ever ignore or resist...unless they are really stupid. It's that attention to detail that women have down pat and yet some guys choose to ignore those character traits that make her special. Consequently, it's just a matter of simply reciprocating back what a woman goes through just to keep us happy, and for that I salute you ladies.

Without question, each of us has what is considered most valuable and that is time. When it comes to a woman, guys will be absolute boneheads for not spending quality time with the one person who he supposedly cares about. It's a sad situation indeed when a relationship is in turmoil all because time wasn't set aside to spend together. In any case, time spent together doesn't always have to be face to face, for it can be through a phone call, email and/or, instant message, to simply say he or she was thinking about that person. For a heartfelt I love you that is said with meaning, shows that even though we are constantly shown masculinity on seemingly constant basis, we actually do have a sensitive side.

Undoubtedly, a gift from the heart is worth giving to someone that you are truly interested in. It's a gift in which there are no strings attached and there are no ulterior motives behind it. A gift such as a simple rose placed in a box that is wrapped nicely with a bow, shows that she is absolutely worth being with. Unfortunately, there are guys who have the stupidity gene where one doesn't take the time to give a gift such as a romantic candle lit dinner and the end result is both eating at a fast food restaurant. It's within these bad experiences of failed gift giving that all women will remember and share through the grapevine, which many of you may or may not have experienced over the years.

In retrospect, it doesn't take pick-up lines, wearing flashy clothing, driving a fast car, or having that perfect physique to touch a woman's heart. It's just a matter of showing how you truly feel about her from deep within your heart such as putting a hand on her cheek. Or merely in the embrace of each other's arms as both watch the sun rise and/or sunset as you take in that precious moment together without saying anything. Being a guy who is very observant, I take into consideration every quality that makes a woman unique and special; but I still don't know what women are thinking and probably will never know. Personally speaking, the key to touching a woman's heart, in my opinion, is to look at what's in a guy's heart and hopefully she likes what she sees and finds inside.