One Thing

Someone once said, ~We are all a little weird, and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.~ It's a rare and little bit scary when you meet someone that you truly click with and have certain things in common with that person that can make one just do the proverbial dance of joy. In some aspects, it's like putting together piece of a puzzle and those pieces represent a complete picture of that particular guy or girl who one thinks will fit perfectly in his or her life. It's jut a matter of getting to know that person both personally, intellectually, and emotionally.

The key to completing a puzzle is to locate the outside edges which is good starting off point; by doing that one can work from the outside in. If you think about it, we all have to start from square one when seeking a potential relationship with that particular person of interest. First impressions are a big part of the puzzle because it's a proverbial ice breaker can determine if he or she likes you just for being yourself. One way to find that out is to say something that is either stupid, funny, or stupidly funny that it actually makes that person genuinely laugh. By making a person laugh, you have your basic start off point to get know that person one on one.

As that potential relationship hopefully starts to progress nicely, he or she will get a better understanding of who that person is. Such as what are his or her likes and dislikes, favorite authors, and other aspects that particular people want to find out. By doing that, it will somewhat determine if one's relationship puzzle will start forming a complete picture. It's been said that a picture can say plenty than mere words ever can say. One of the qualities that every person is looking for in a person is intelligence. Not too smart or not too dumb but exactly right in the middle, a criteria which most people look for and for the most part have found.

Inevitably, one the major pieces to complete one's puzzle is the heart. To truly get to know a person is if you can touch him or her emotionally in one's heart. Emotions such as happiness and confusion are just a few aspects of what a person will go through when one's heart is touched. It's been said, that you can never really fall in love with someone until you find out what makes that person cry. Each of us have suffered heartache and those emotions stay with us and never really go away. In any case, when you stumble on a person that you start to fall in love with, you will get up every time; but when you fall completely in love with that person, you will never be able to get up ever again.

Natalie Clifford Bailey said, ~When you're in love you never really know whether your elation comes from the qualities of the one you love, or if it attributes them to her; whether the light which surrounds her like a halo comes from you, from her, or from the meeting of your sparks.~ It's truly amazing how people stumble upon each other by accident and find qualities in that person that he or she is absolutely looking for. It's like finding that perfect diamond among many, but that one particular diamond happened to find you. In retrospect, in order to complete one's puzzle that pertains to a potential relationship, a person has only to do one thing....just simply say, Hi.