Balance Of Power

As a guy, I've accepted the fact long ago that women have "the power". Every guy may think he is in control but in reality there is a woman lurking in the shadows running the show so to speak. It's really no big secret, for the proof is in the pudding because when kids ask their father for something fairly semi-important he would primarily tell him or her to wait for one's mom and see what see says. The power a women has is simply unexplainable and can't be figure out. For if it could be compared to something that a guy would understand, it would be compared to the power of the force, which a jedi master would yield.

Looking at it from a guy's perspective, the influence that a woman has over a man is unbelieveable. That basic influence doesn't come from a wave of the hand, it comes from her smile and the way she looks in one's direction. A women's smile and certain look that she perfects should be outlawed because guys will turn into mindless zombies that will say yes to anything. Every guy has been in a situation where he refused to do something that would compromise one's own masculinity, but would soon find himself doing it because it made her happy. It's that certain quality that makes women special, even though they drive us nuts.

In my own thinking, "the power" would balance out if guys and girls correctly picked that one person who truly makes one smile as well as your heart smile too. Each of us have had moments in life where you wanted our dream to come true when in concerned someone that you knew one wouldn't have a chance with. A dream where anything was possible and the chances one had were endless because in reality each of us have only one life and one chance to do and say all the things with that one person. Inevitably each of us must make the most of the opportunites that are placed in front us because second chances are sometimes hard to come by.

In the whole scheme of things, each one of us wants a relationship that is well balanced. A balance of friendship, romance, conversation, respect and love. It's been said that love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear. The brightest future is oftentimes determined by a painful past and sometimes a person can't move on to the future until one let goes of past failures and heartaches. Ultimately, telling someone that you care about and/or love him or her is never 100% guaranteed that he or she will return those feeling back. We're human and like the saying goes, what doesn't kill us will only make us stronger.

Someone once said, ~ Relationships are like a roses with endless beauty. To enjoy it's beauty one must love and care for it. Give it the things it needs to bloom. The feeling is much greater than to be pricked by it's hurting thorns.~ In other words, both men and women have to be prepared to work hard to keep the roses from losing all it's petals. Petals which represent the true beauty of a person and that beauty comes form a person's heart and In the end nobody wants to be left with a stem full of thorns. In retrospect, every person will find that one person who will bring a harmonious balance of power to a seemingly unbalanced life.